Met this girl (hb8) on a party bus to 6th street two weeks ago. Had good connection, made out quite a few times and all and she even ended up staying the night at my place with her best friend in the spare room I have.
A week later she hits me up to see if I was going back to 6th, I said yes and we met up again. This time though the connection was better and we held hands and all and made out a lot more through out the night. I could tell she was definitely interested. She sat on my lap the entire way back from 6th and spent the night at my place again. This time she slept with me. Of course we made out and fooled around and she told me she didn't want to have sex. I told her that I would respect that.
We've been texting and snap chatting this past week and she was definitely giving IOIs.
Went to a party last night that I invited her to. She was there with her 3 friends which made it harder for me to get her attention because you know how girls are at parties with their friends, a lot of the times they don't leave each other's side (and her friends were not even hot). I approached her a couple times, but with all the sound at the party it was hard to keep a conversation going and it seemed she seemed to be ignoring me the entire time I was there. I didn't become a puppy dog by staying by her side and be that guy so I let her enjoy her time with her friends as I enjoyed my time with mine.
Yesterday during the day, I told her that she should join me for dinner but she said that she had already made plans with her friends before going out. She did say that we should have dinner tonight. So, the last time I talked to her at the party last night, I asked her if we were still on for tomorrow night (today) and she said yes of course in a bubbly way, which made it seem like she was excited about it.
**I called her late this morning to confirm a time, but she didn't answer. So I waited about 2 hours later to text her and asked her if 7 or 8pm would work for tonight.
She answers back with "I'm really sorry but I really don't think I can go "
She just flaked out on me and I don't know what to answer back.
Why do you guys think she backed out last minute? Anything I do wrong here?
I would appreciate the advice, gentlemen.