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Thread: I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

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    Default I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

    Ok. I met this Hott girl on POF.com about a month ago. She contacted me first (never happened to me before).

    We met up about 2 and a half weeks ago and on the first night I managed to go back to her place and ya know..lol.

    I kinda feel like she has a lot of guys on the side but she tries to make me think that she doesnt.

    I like that we have a shit ton in common and I do enjoy being around her. I dont find many girls I have stuff in common with.

    Here is the thing, she contacts mostly through texting. Its like pulling teeth to get her to respond back to questions I ask. She isnt a good texter backer..lol. I hate that. She sends me random weird texts, like just a smiley face or she responds with very short responses hours later giving me not much to work with.

    Ive read up alot on text game. Id say I still suck when it comes to being creative. Creative writing has always been a weakness of mine.

    Well also, about a week ago I get her to go out for lunch and she is talking about she is really horney and stuff. Later that night she invites me back over to watch a movie and asks me to bring icecream. SO im thinking good I get to fark this girl again (Id give her a 7 in looks btw). Well, I get there and we talk for a minute and find a movie on netflix. While we are watching the movie, she gets naked under the covers. So im ready. But she says no and slaps my hand and says that she doesnt feel like being touched by xy chromosomes right now, I hope you can understand that... The way she talked to me was like im some gay friend. It pissed me off a lil. But I remained cool and tried to ignore the fact that i was horney and she was naked and just watched the rest of the movie. I did stay the night thinking she would change her mind and maybe the next morning. But the next day she still seems uninterested. So I left and decided not to contact her until she contacts me.

    Well yesterday she texts me a question asking If I knew her wifi password to her house..lol She should know that, and she should also know that I used the hotspot on my phone bc she couldnt remember the wifi code. So I responded a few hours later saying NO.

    A few hours later:

    Her: Whats ur deal 9:28 PM
    Me: Its called the real sweet deal, cream filled puff with extra sweet hot sauce.. melts in ur mouth.. Guaranteed to be a hit .lol.......Why, Whats up?? 12:50 AM
    her: I dont get it 12:55 AM
    Me: lame.. lol..It was supposed to be funny 1:00 AM
    Her: Oh lol 1:01 AM
    Me: How's my favorite little brat doing?? 1:11 AM
    Her: Brat? 1:42 AM
    Her: I dunno. But im good 1:43 AM
    Me: No reason to call u a brat,...lol......... So, whats up meow face? 1:50 AM
    Her: Boooogity 9:28 AM
    Her: Merry Monday Morning 9:46 AM
    Me: Happy Monday Afternoon 12:16 PM
    Me: Whatchya up too pretty miss kitty cat? 12:16 PM

    No response yet

    I do notice one thing.. She never responds well to any bantering i come up with, sometimes I come up with stuff I think is cool and it gets shut down, like you see at the top.. Well it is kinda corny, but she asked whats my deal in like a negative way , I had to come up with something to laugh about. I freezed out on her for a couple days and thats why she asked whats my deal.

    I just dont know if I should say screw it and move on and never respond back to her, bc she sometimes askes me what im doing and then when I respond she doesnt respond. idk.. she is giving me a hard time, or maybe she just has a bunch of guys on the side, or idk what.

    I know some would say you at least farked her just move on to the next, well thats true but I didnt get off because I was more into pleasuring her. She even said that I was the best she has ever had that she didnt know someone could be so good. She even says that I am an awesome person and talented in many ways. Im starting to think compliments mean nothing from girls. But it is weird that she says that about me and she also says she is always horney and yet she turns me down and im supposedly the best.. weird. She is a highly sexual girl. So that confuses me. And in general this is not the first time a girl has done this to me.

    Comments, advice? Its ok to laugh at me, I know this situation is funny. lol

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    Default Re: I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

    O btw.. IF you notice the timestamps on the texts, I was not able to respond to her right away because alot of times I am too busy to respond back.

    But she stays glued to her phone and she is in between jobs right now and doesnt go to school. So idk what her excuse is for not responding right away.. lol

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    Default Re: I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

    Shes a flake. Red flag central. MOVE ON. If she contacts you to fuck again... by all means go to town. but waste NO more energy

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    Default Re: I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

    Ive read up alot on text game. Id say I still suck when it comes to being creative. Creative writing has always been a weakness of mine.
    Check out a book called On Writing Well by William Zinser. That really helped me to advance my creative writing and excel it to a professional level.

    She doesn't sound like she's at all interested. She's just looking for a bit of entertainment when she texts you like that. I know because that's what I do to girls from time to time.

    I can tell from the boring lopsidedness of this conversation. Freezing out or changing your texting style won't work because it appears that the sex was a falling out point. Sex can either make or break a relationship. It all depends on who the people are and how it goes. In this case, it broke the relationship. Always try to hold out sex as long as you can until you really escalate and build up rapport and attraction with the girl of interest.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

    Like Swagman said, she only seems to want you for sex, and that apparently failed in some capacity. She's highly sexual, yet, turns you down after she called you the best? Lol, quit being played, and move onto someone else.

    Btw, I'll try that book out Swagman. My creative writing is decent, but it could use improvement for sure.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

    As soon as she told me that we weren't doing anything WHILE NAKED IN THE BED AFTER SHE TOOK OFF HER OWN CLOTHES I would of told her to not tell me what to do again I'll do what I want. I wouldn't of forced myself on her, I would I just left if she kept acting up.
    Or I would of said. "Your right" and then F-closed her.
    She sh1t tested you right there & you failed.
    She plays guys & wanted you for sex but you failed to be the man you are. I'm not trying to be mean to you man I'm just being honest.
    Stop texting her. Stop contacting her. She's a player. Play her game back. She probably won't chase you at this point but that's your only option man. You kinda blew it. Maybe in a month or so you can re-initiate but your stuck until then.

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    Default Re: I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

    Thanks for the advice so far. Everything being said is basically what I have been thinking. O well, it is what it is. The only think left for me to do is not text or contact her at all ever.

    And yes I went for it as soon as she took her clothes off, but she was very serious when she turned me down. Im not gonna force her.lol... But what I wanted to do when she did that was just leave , but I cant go back and change it.

    The only thing now, Is how should I properly respond to her when she starts her random texting to see what I am doing or if she texts me a text like she did yesterday asking what my deal was?? If she is not interested why wont she just leave me alone?

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    Default Re: I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jae View Post
    Thanks for the advice so far. Everything being said is basically what I have been thinking. O well, it is what it is. The only think left for me to do is not text or contact her at all ever.

    And yes I went for it as soon as she took her clothes off, but she was very serious when she turned me down. Im not gonna force her.lol... But what I wanted to do when she did that was just leave , but I cant go back and change it.

    The only thing now, Is how should I properly respond to her when she starts her random texting to see what I am doing or if she texts me a text like she did yesterday asking what my deal was?? If she is not interested why wont she just leave me alone?
    Because women like to string men along to keep themselves entertained and to keep their egos fed. If she texts you IGNORE for AT LEAST 4 hours. "Sorry I was busy. What's up?" If her response is anything less than cool or too short... IGNORE. Your texts should always be shorter than hers. After all your too busy to respond with any thing more. You get me?

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    Default Re: I think this girl is messing with me.. idk.. what should i do?

    Yep. Great advice thanks.

    Shouldnt be a problem not responding right away, Im usually not able to text right back anyways.


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