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Thread: Need help with online number close?

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    Question Need help with online number close?

    So I'm new to all this pua stuff and online dating but I've done a lil bit of research. Anyways this cute girl chose me as a secret admire on an online dating site. So I shoot her a message and the conversation goes great. So when the momentum was right I asked for her number. She hasn't replied for 2 days here's the convo:


    Me: Ok serious question...you have to pick one, don't cheat! M&Ms, Skittles, or Chocolate covered strawberries?

    Her: Chocolate covered strawberries

    Me: Interesting...your answer says a lot about your personality!

    Her: Haha. What does it say about me

    Me: Before I tell you close your eyes and imagine you're by a body of water, tell me how big it is?

    Her: The ocean

    Me: And what would you do if you were there?

    Her: Lay on the sand. Haha.

    Me: Haha ok here goes...
    Strawberries have a strong association with romance. Makes me think you are or want to be a very romantic person. You like to be open but you feel comfortable behind certain boundaries. Am I close?

    Her: Oh man. Dead on haha

    Me: Haha that accurate!? Well if that's the case we should hangout. We could eat chocolate strawberries at the mall ha

    Her: Haha. Will you be making these chocolate covered strawberries

    Me: Yes of course, dipped in homemade chocolate haha. Mind if I get your number?

    Any ideas on what went wrong and is it too late to fix it?

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    Default Re: Need help with online number close?

    Something about eating chocolate covered strawberries at a mall doesn't really flow lol. Sounds so 16ish.

    Maybe you were a little too forward too early. Chicks online have a lot of guys coming on too strong, too fast. You might have triggered something to initiate that feeling. On the other hand, with the right girl, this conversation might've ended with a number. You didn't blow it by any means.

    I think that women wants things to go slower than men do. Try to build up more rapport next time. I try to aim for 20 messages sent (from me, not total) before I try and get a number.

    This wasn't a failure. This was a learning experience. You can always message her in a few days, ask her if she got lost picking strawberries in the forest.
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    Default Re: Need help with online number close?

    Thanks. Yeah I was afraid that would happen but seems like some pua say don't take too long messaging her. This convo was in a course of several days so I figure I should go for the number. More rapport for sure next time.

    Anyway I could reopen if thats possible?

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    Default Re: Need help with online number close?

    Hmm. I'm not sure how I feel about that. That kind of conversation looks like it would be done in one hour.

    I would've tried to speed things up. Women online are very flakey, and forget you exist in no time.
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    Default Re: Need help with online number close?

    I tried this one on a girl tonight and this is what I got back

    her: Are you trying to psychoanalyze me?

    I love churros and they're often served with fresh strawberries, that's why I chose that option. Don't read too much into it nice try though

    It sounds kind of positive but no idea where to take it from there


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