I met this girl on match.com. we went out for a first date last week (that was on Tuesday). There were a lot of signs proved the date went really well, unless she was just too polite.
She texted me the next day to thank me for the dinner. and I replied politely and I implied that I had really good time, and wishing her luck with her big project on that weekend, without asking her out on a second date.
On Thursday, I texted her asking her out on a second date. Never heard back from her.
I know she had something she's really stressed out about over the weekend. It has been so far 5 days.
I'm kind of a person, if I really like a girl, which is usually not that often, I'd really like a closure to move on, so I'm thinking to send her just a follow up text this Thursday (7 day from my last text) saying something like "hey, hope your project wasn't too overwhelming, I want to hear more about it! How about hanging next Tue, 7 pm, same place! And I'm not taking No for an answer "
I think the text playful, showing interest, and right to the point. (by the way, she's very very straightforward person, doesn't seem like a person who likes to play games).
I'd really appreciate an honest and positive opinion/suggestion without butchering my feelings! Cause I know there are a lot douche-s out there!