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Thread: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    I don't care whether or not it's a shit test. You've known her for 2 dates. Say No. She's a big girl, she'll figure it out.

    You don't need to explain yourself. From even a logic perspective, there's implicit liability you're incurring if her shit gets damaged, and taking her stuff will make her appreciate you more as a friend.

    Whether her intent is it to be a shit test or not, it's a No.
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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    Alright fellas, somewhat urgent opinions are required here.. You know who you are!

    I've gone on 2 dates with a really amazing girl from Japan, she's new to the country. She's really cool, really hot and super cute. We have a lot in common. She likes me a lot. We are going on a 3rd date this weekend before she leaves the country for 2 months. I'm stoked.

    I just got a text from her asking if she can leave a few things at my place for 2 months, nothing big. Wtf? Should I be putting up some red flags here or am I over reacting? Keep in mind she's only been in Canada for under a year. She has told me though that she has a lot of friends here... Perhaps they don't have room?

    She doesn't seem creepy or weird at all when I see her, she seems really chill and just really nice and awesome. What is she thinking asking me this?
    My two cents: Look, lets not get to carried away in the pua stuff. She's ditching her apartment, right? If you were ditching your apartment you just might ask your friends to hold some of your stuff.

    Now, I think it's a bigger problem that after two dates you haven't even kissed. Ramp up the sexuality before you get friend zoned. If you decide she's cool and you don't care if she leaves a few items at your place, so be it. Be out chasing and scoring major tail. Don't even think about her until she comes back, because you have a life to lead.

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    Cd I appreciate the honesty and intensity. I think it is indeed a no. I will get a better perspective tomorrow night on her motive.

    Suave. There have been 2 dates, but they've been short ones due to me having to be up early.. We've spent about 5 hours together collectively. There is definite attraction on both our parts so I'm not too worried on that front. Tomorrow night is drinking and dancing.. I can't lose

    Great to hear from you guys on this.. Always got my back.

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    I'll make this short and sweet.

    Slowly amped up kino at the bar/club. Danced for the majority of the night, kissed her while dancing. Ended up taking a bus back to my place where she stayed over

    Didn't even talk about her stuff. I think she gets the message.

    Life is good.

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    I just got a text from her asking if she can leave a few things at my place for 2 months, nothing big. Wtf? Should I be putting up some red flags here or am I over reacting? Keep in mind she's only been in Canada for under a year. She has told me though that she has a lot of friends here... Perhaps they don't have room?

    She doesn't seem creepy or weird at all when I see her, she seems really chill and just really nice and awesome. What is she thinking asking me this?
    ah, this reminds me of an article I read in a womans magazine while I was at the doctors office. it was about "ways to keep your lover thinking about you"

    one of the suggestions it made was to leave things at your partners place or in their car. (the idea being that you would make an effort to give them back and thus ensure another meet up)

    she is leaving her stuff at your place so you won't forget about her over those two months and so she will have an excuse to come see you when she gets back.

    I wouldn't be too alarmed by this sort of behavior, she just wants you to remember her.


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