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Thread: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

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    Default 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    Alright fellas, somewhat urgent opinions are required here.. You know who you are!

    I've gone on 2 dates with a really amazing girl from Japan, she's new to the country. She's really cool, really hot and super cute. We have a lot in common. She likes me a lot. We are going on a 3rd date this weekend before she leaves the country for 2 months. I'm stoked.

    I just got a text from her asking if she can leave a few things at my place for 2 months, nothing big. Wtf? Should I be putting up some red flags here or am I over reacting? Keep in mind she's only been in Canada for under a year. She has told me though that she has a lot of friends here... Perhaps they don't have room?

    She doesn't seem creepy or weird at all when I see her, she seems really chill and just really nice and awesome. What is she thinking asking me this?

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    Sitting here mulling it over, I'm thinking it could be that she's worried I'll forget about her over the 2 months she's gone, and wants to make sure she'll see me again when she returns.

    Clingy shit just really messes with me. I dunno.

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    Its definitely clingy. But what are you gonna do? Its not like you are implicitly accepting a relationship... if two months from now you want nothing to do with her give the shit back. Whooptee. U get me?

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    Yeah I got you dude. Just really came out of left field... Kind of disappointing. Been cool going out with a girl who isn't a total fucking nutjob haha.

    I suppose I can sympathize a little since she's not from here. Maybe they do it differently where she's from. Who knows.

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    She obviously sees you as boyfriend material type (leaving some of her things at your place means she trusts you). Definitely a good friend at the very least. The fact that she left some things at your place means she wants to see you once she comes back.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    Just set the ground rules.

    1/ Her stuff can only stay at your place for less than 90 days. Or you'll donate it to a charity.

    2/ You charge $1 per day

    3/ You'll take the payment in cash or drinks only

    Just have fun with it and you have an out to get rid of it after 90 days. She may be clingy but you have the option to break it off whenever you want to stop seeing her.

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    There are so many potential scenarios here. She's using you as a storage bin, she displays a lot of trust in you, she wants to move in, her friends didn't have any room, the list goes on. At this point, it's very hard to say what is going on.

    I would recommend playing it cool and taking her stuff in. Who knows, perhaps you can use it as leverage to reignite things once she gets back to Canada.
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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    I concur that it is hard to judge this early. But one way to read more into this is it depends on the value of what she leaves behind. So...

    If she leaves behind a bunch of expendable junk she picked up along her stay (things she can afford to lose/not get back), then more so she is using you as a storage bin and as a source of someone that can help her in a time of need. So, she may not trust you that much.

    If she leaves behind things of more value to her like say clothes, then it means she trusts you, really likes you or expects to see you again and pick things up where they left off. Kinda like saying, "I'm going to tear this 20 dollar in half you keep one half and I keep the other half until we are reunited." Fyi If she leaves behind her clothes "oh sh1t" that means she is marking her territory lol. Don't let any other girls you bring back to your place see it.

    Bottomline: The more value the things she leaves behind has, the more value and trust she places on your relationship.

    It doesn't sound like you guys knew each other for very long, so I too will be caught flat-footed. Did you bang her yet? 2-3 dates you don't really know the person at all. Off the top of my head, she could be a girl who gets attached to someone really fast. Some Japanese girls can be like that.

    Hmmm, nonetheless it's interesting. I'll ask my lady friend who is hot and confident her opinion on it (conversation topic for our date in case I run out of things lol).

    Time will tell...

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    I hardly know her at all really.. We've been on 2 dates, 2 really good dates, she didn't come off at all clingy, just really sweet. I haven't even kissed her, I was planning to push things forward when I see her this weekend.

    It seems out of character and kind of weird of her. She's already told me she has quite a few friends here. If it's just a few things, why not leave it with them?.. Or put it in storage? I personally wouldn't even consider asking a girl that I really liked, who I've only been on 2 dates with, to hold on to my stuff while I was away for 2 months. Seems bizarre.

    She is also moving out of her place when she leaves, and finding a new one when she gets back. Don't know if this plays into it. I'm leaning toward telling her I don't feel comfortable with it, can't decide if I'm over-reacting though.

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    Default Re: 29 needs a quick opinion here boys

    Let her leave the stuff, she comes back maybe you will get laid, I mean nothing to lose right? She maybe doing it because she wants you when she comes back but who cares, tell her what she needs to hear and get laid


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