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    Default How to get the shy/virgin girl?

    Well basically, i am relativley new to the whole pick up artist thing, ive been dabbling with it for around a year now and have had made much progress. I've lost my virginity and can k close a girl without too much trouble if things go smoothly.

    Anyway, i want a little advice from people who really know their stuff for this one..

    How do i attract shy girls? This is relating specifically to a girl my friend is trying to set me up with, shes 20 and is actually a virgin aswell (apparently due to being shy, she is atleast a 6-7)
    anyway, how should i handle this?
    my friend suggested i just call her out of the blue... buuuut i cant see this being a good idea, i imagive she would feel very nervous.
    I think im gona try to go for a double date with my friend and his gf. Just to keep things super casual/low pressure so hopefully she opens up.

    Anyways, id just like to know how to go about this? i.e. lots of kino, or avoid kino or any little tips or tricks for shy girls. id really appreciate this, thanks

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    Default Re: How to get the shy/virgin girl?

    Shy girls are easy! I love shy girls. The shy girls I've picked up have always been at school so your situation is a little different. I would talk to them and get their name, then every time I would see them I would say Heyyy (her name) with a big smile. Talk to her a bit and act like she totally wants you. Once you break the barrier she will be extremely talkative and most likely contact you allot. That's been my experience with shy girls. I got a kick out of the fact they were shy and made sure they knew it. Have fun with it!

    In your situation I would have your friend invite her with on some sort of activity you guys are going to do together. Make sure it's not very clear to her that it's a "double date" because that will put allot of pressure on her and shut her down even more. When you go out make sure she is involved in the conversation. If you guys are talking about something and she's being quiet, look her straight in the eyes and say "Tell me what you think about xxx (her name)". The best thing I've found with shy girls is to make sure they are involved and noticed, they really like that. I wouldn't worry about kino. Kino her when you have the opportunity just like any other girl.

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    Default Re: How to get the shy/virgin girl?

    Shy means more comfort than usual. I stay away from virgins but that's a personal decision.
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    Default Re: How to get the shy/virgin girl?

    It's important to note the difference between shy and introverted.

    Let's start with shy girls. A lot of girls (I would say most) who are "shy" tend to just take a while to open up, and require more comfort than normal girls in order to come out of their shell. A little less attraction and a little more comfort.. Not usually a huge challenge in comparison to girls who aren't shy, just a little extra careful attention. It's just an extra layer to get through essentially, once you do you can pretty much follow the same steps you normally would.

    Introverted girls are a different story. Truly introverted females can, and often do, take a lot more time to warm up and become comfortable with a guy. You absolutely don't want to rush flirting, offering to exchange numbers, kino, talking about a date, or meeting up as just the two of you.

    Some introverted girls will seem to warm up quicker than others, although just when it seems like she is giving you the green light, you will try to apply kino or talk about going out together, and it will take a 180 and go cold. They seem to have an "Oh shit this guy's a creeper" switch that is set to go into rapid-fire trigger-happy mode. You have to take it real slow.. I've had it happen and it seems really bizarre when it does. Definite "Wtf just happened?!" moment.

    If she is introverted, focus less on attraction building right from the get go - don't completely neglect building attraction, just keep it light when it comes to flirting etc. make sure to smile and focus on making her laugh. Take it slower than you normally would. Don't rush kino, and spend quite a bit more time in the comfort phase. Might even need to rinse and repeat.

    Once you feel like she is becoming comfortable with you, you can slowly introduce a bit of kino and more flirting. Feel it out and act accordingly.


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