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Thread: Advice on timing for escalation with a new girl

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    Default Advice on timing for escalation with a new girl

    Greetings fellows, newbie here, been reading PUA material for a while but there is no substitute for in field experience.

    I've recently started going out more, and a couple weeks ago started chatting with this beautiful girl at a local bar, turned out she was with her boyfriend but I was very attracted to her so I decided to just be bold and keep talking. We had fun, I gave her some of my info and we parted ways. Later that week she emailed me and added me on her FB, she mentioned her BF was out of town and she was lonely so then we made plans to meet up and go see her roommates play a live show. She told me to bring friends but I didn't tell anyone because I wanted to see her myself. She was there with one friend, and it was quite noisy but we talked and had fun anyway, until her friend had to bail early. She apologized over and over for bailing early. We said goodbye and parted ways.

    Next week we had been texting and emailing a bit, when she dropped the bomb that she was unhappy and thinking about breaking up with her boyfriend. Obviously she's feeling a bit vulnerable and out of sorts right now, but Im very interested in her.

    I'm going to a big trade show this weekend, I was thinking it might be a fun thing to invite her to come, we could drive down together, some good alone time, and I could show her around the show highlighting my skills and knowledge. Only problem is its about 3 days long, which might be a bit much considering we haven't known each other very long.

    Should I move quickly or slow down a bit, need the pros to weigh in!

    Much appreciated,
    Frank

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    Default Re: Advice on timing for escalation with a new girl

    Slow down. The tradeshow would have to be incredibly fun and exciting from a female perspective for her to be engaged. The level of investment you are putting into the relationship is too much. It's better to bump into her at the bar, hook up and go form there before doing something more intense
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    Default Re: Advice on timing for escalation with a new girl

    I agree with CD. Inviting her to the tradeshow is WAY too much this early. It appears that she has some interest in you but you shouldn't rush things with this girl. It sounds like her relationship will end soon and the worst thing you can do is push things too fast with her. That does not mean that you can't hook up with her soon, that's definitely a possibility, but inviting her on things like a three day event is a big no-no. Keep things light and fun.

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    Default Re: Advice on timing for escalation with a new girl

    Bro, Invite her! If there is no ring then it is fair game!! Her boyfriend is most likely out having fun himself since he is not keeping her happy. Nothing at all wrong with having some fun! I've never stayed loyal to one girl, I believe in do what you gotta do for yourself!


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