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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    Yes, continue the freeze out (unless you have to contact her again due to school). If I were you, during that period, do your research on improving your text game. And frankly there is no rush. I'd rather take my time and make sure I do it right, than rush back into texting and make mistakes.

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    Quote Originally Posted by Tow View Post
    @Mystik: As I understand it now, it is like validation seeking or like you needed the response desperately.

    @Experts: HAD to text her today (Sunday), because the results of an exam came out and I had to give the information to those collagues who where absent during the distribution (I am the delegate/students'speaker, however the correct English term is^^). She was one of those. So I HAD to break the two weeks. The texting just was nice and just information about the exam and some complains about our marks.

    Now I am thinking I shall just continue the texting break?
    Hey thanks for separating me from the experts. You are right though I am not an expert in texting and haven't done all that much of it(at least not with females). Obviously you are no expert either otherwise you wouldn't be posting this thread in the first place.

    I'm not sure about the whole freeze out thing to be honest though. It's a risky move imo. I say this because she might think you are just blowing her off or ignoring her and she might just think you aren't interested in her anymore. That might be ok some of the time but I think it's probably better to just give her less attention than to freeze her out entirely.

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    @Mystik: There was no intention to offend you. It was just that you asked a question too.

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post
    So it's ok if she sends two texts in a row but not us guys? Does this mean she should be texting more than us?
    Yes. Investment Game 101:
    The person who sends less messages is winning the investment game and runs the relationship.
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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    Quote Originally Posted by cdharders View Post
    Yes. Investment Game 101:
    The person who sends less messages is winning the investment game and runs the relationship.

    Ok, well I'd say that's how most women control men and lead the relationship then. Not just with texting but in general. I've noticed that a lot of the time if not most of the time I'll be talking more than she is and I'll be the one asking most of the questions. I don't do it as much as I used to since I've become aware of it but unless you are really good or the woman is already attracted to you I find it's difficult to get them to invest more by talking more than you.

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    I wanted to thank you all again. I never messaged her again (which was hard!), but since yesterday she texts me atleast once a day with really weak excuses to text with me. She could ask these questions everybody else. I just answer them shortly and get back to the freeze out. So I can get better and get more discipline and finally win the investment game!

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    She's kinda coming around. See? Maybe it will workout.
    Give it a few more weeks & this may turn around 180degrees if you even still care. The secret here is you have to come back with WAY more value. That means better game, better teases, & better social proof. No chasing this time.

    The weak excuses are to try to string you along.
    Only answer every other text. Then reply a few times in a row with CLIFFHANGER text messages & right before you tell her go total freeze out..

    Example :
    She texts you whatever BS
    Then you text her "oh my gosh (her name) you would never believe what just happened"
    She replies whatever
    & then you say " idk if I should tell you, it's kinda embarrassing lol but it reminded me of you! (you can replace embarrassing with almost any word)
    (She'll be curious at this point & invested in the convo)
    She'll say whatever.
    GO COLD.
    Then don't text her back at all until she double texts you.
    If she doesn't. Continue freeze out. When she does, tease her and tell her: "why are you blowing up my phone when you could be here with me"
    If you see her & she asks you in person what happened tell her you can't remember. Then run game.

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    Thank you again for your effort. By reading, trying and asking again, I learn really much!

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    Sorry, forgot to ask:
    Any specific threads you would recommend on " better game, better teases, better social proof. No chasing"?

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    EDIT: You say more weeks, but doesn't she lose interest? How do I know if the freeze out goes to far?


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