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Thread: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    Don't worry about whether or not the freeze out goes for to long. You want to keep this woman off of your mind and continue to build yourself up. You're not re-engaging when it's right for her, you're doing it when it's right for you. So for the time being, trust me and forget about her.

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    This is what I mean.
    Better game as in be a better person overall. I mean, stronger body language, stronger inner-game & self confidence, hit the weights and work out, just a better you then when she first met you.
    Better teases as in, become fun, funny, more playful, slightly cocky (takes practice), basically just becoming awesome at giving girls sh1t in a playful way. Look up push/pull, Xavier has an awesome thread on it.
    Better social proof as in, you need to come back with WAY more
    Value. This is why I told you it would take a Herculean effort & she wasn't really worth it,
    You need to make friends and lots of them which is a skill in itself. Once she sees how awesome people think you are, she's going to think you're awesome basically.

    Yes, she could lose interest over time & probably will. But she never had strong interest to begin with in your situation. What do you mean going to far? You're just ignoring her man. Honestly, she's not worth it IMO & once you get strong social proof you'll realize it too.

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    I know that it seems too much effort, but I too see it as a challenge on which I can learn. Either to fail or to win.

    Thank you for your help

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    Default Re: Shame on me - the 9 how f*cks with my mind

    Update (so you see that I am actually following your advices and you are not wasting your time on me):

    I was in a popular Caffè with two guy friends and three girl friends (good looking girls, but two are the girl friends of my guy friends and with the third I am just friends, was never interested in her, but all three would go by HB7-9). We had fun, I often was centre of attention and then I had to go to the bathroom. As I came out, I saw her sitting there, seeming bored by the two guys who were with her (I assumed that they were just friends, didn't matter for me), I got eye contact with her and went over to her. Her face lighted up and instantly asked me how I was. And while I was greeting her friends, she immediately started talking how my exam on that day went etc. We had quite fun talking and after some time I decided that I had to go back to my friends.

    As she was about to leave the Cafè she nearly shouted across half of the Cafè just to make me notice that she was leaving. I waved her and then continued talking to my friends.

    On the same day in the morning I had asked her out to students' party and she was more than happy that I asked her. This will be Friday, Valentine's Day.

    Today (three days later), I just texted her about school, which wouldn't have mattered, if I hadn't texted her.
    (And in this conversation I think, I screwed up):

    Me: I am to nice for this world D
    Her (forty minutes later): Why
    Me (forty minutes later, wasn't on purpose, I was busy): I am giving [three collagues, who are befriended with her] a lesson in programming
    Her (one minute later): (y) nice of you
    Me (fifteen minutes later): [sent her my exam result of an exam she was really worried about]
    Her (seventeen minutes later): (y)
    Me (fifty minutes later): And you? You don't seem very talkative today :P

    Now I think this conversation was completely unnessercary, but I am not sure if this was really bad?


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