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    Default Help with College PUA

    Hey guys, I'm a senior in college getting into this PUA stuff.

    There's so many girls around (so much opportunity) and I've been working on being more social, making small talk with them, being confident, smiling.

    I don't want to come off as creepy - as this guy on campus just randomly going up to girls and asking for their numbers.

    What are some good ways for me to practice on camps without this happening?

    Should I try talking to girls in the library, or focus on bars?

    Any tips on drills to do or things to try?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Help with College PUA

    I'm in college as well man. Only I'm a freshman. I'm in class typing this so bare with me.
    College game is mostly extended social game. Get yourself a circle of girls you are ONLY friends with for the time being. Take them everywhere and just be genuinely friends. You'll sleep with them later if you so decide. Lol
    Go out to parties and meet people. Make more friends. Once your social girl gets huge, then meet there friends and then it'll be sooo easy. Every approach on there friends will instantly be a very WARM approach. It's basically like high school game but on a huge scale & more forgiving.

    There's so many shortcuts but I don't have time to type them.

    On the forums there is a guy named "Cody" read his material on college game and how to get abundance. I love his work.

    Yes you can direct approach girls in the library & stuff but be very discrete about it & you will definitely need to change your direct approaches because word gets around very
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    Never never never never use canned material or routines.

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    Default Re: Help with College PUA

    First, while it may seem crazy in your situation, understand that college is the perfect opportunity to take teh risk of being the weird creepy dude. It will be over and a new chapter of your life will eventually start. There is a pain period of creepiness every PUA will have to go through in order to get good.

    Second, girls on college campuses are a lot more open and willing to give out their numbers than anywhere else on the planet. I went on a campus a few weeks ago and my head hurt with how simple it was getting their numbers compared to just about anywhere else.

    Rather than go direct right off the bat, I'd recommend starting with an indirect observational opener, finding a commonality with the girl and saying, "You actually seem really friendly. We should grab a drink [or coffee] sometime. What's your number?"

    That's if you're going for numbers. My personal game is "get blown or get blown out," meaning I stay in set til we screw or some logistical situation stops it from happening, but that may put too much pressure on you.

    Let me know if you've got any other questions.
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    Default Re: Help with College PUA

    College game is all about social game. The main reason it's all about social game is because if you do something bad, the campus will be hearing about it. No matter what college you are at, or what university you are at, there is one thing they all share in common, and that is an intricate network that is more closed than it appears. Of course the size of the school can affect how the word spreads, but spread the word will.

    If you're 21 and older, the bars are a fantastic place to go to. Figure out what the campus favorites are and go there. Hell, bring your friends to. When they see you as a source of fun, they will flock to you as a leader.

    If you're not 21, no matter then. There's plenty of places you can go to even if you can't go into the bars. There's the mall, the library, campus cafes, just like picking bars you have to figure out where people go.

    To the most important point: friends. Unlike pickup outside of school, dominating the social scene in college requires not only a high degree of confidence, but an ability to win over friends as well. This is accomplished by being a leader. Be the one to invite your friends out and plan activities, don't be afraid to draw people into your circle, the list goes on.

    As far as literature goes, Conquer your Campus, Tao of the Badass, and 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens will help you get there.
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    Default Re: Help with College PUA

    Honestly bro, you're only creepy if you think it's creepy. If you meet a girl and it feels like getting her number is forced, then f*ck it. It'll probably seem forced.

    Keep in mind, though, there's a difference between not forcing it and be a pansy. Spot the phone number opportunity when it naturally hits, and work towards making it hit naturally more often. But once you see that golden opportunity, be there to confidently snatch it up!!


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