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    Default What's my next move?

    So I meet this girl at a meetup event and it was specifically a singles group. Talk to her a good portion of the event and get her number on Monday. She has her own business so she says she gets a lot of unfamiliar numbers calling so I text her my number right then so she knows it's me.

    Tuesday morning she text me that it was nice meeting me and I respond in kind. I knew I was going to be out Wednesday night so that night I call her and she doesn't pickup.

    Wednesday around noon she sends me a text saying she prefers texting or talking in person as well as some other miscellaneous stuff like the snow storm that happened. So around 1pm I send her a text and say we should hang out in person and ask her what her schedule looks like.

    It's almost midnight Thursday here and I haven't gotten a response. Most people respond within a few hours to texts so this is a little weird but on the other hand she texted me the day after we met without my prompting it so it seems like she's interested. I'm debating whether to ask her what's up or just wait longer. Also what to make of this.

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    Default Re: What's my next move?

    She doesn't sound all the interested which tells me that not enough attraction was built when you first met her. Personally, I would move on.. but, you could always hit her up tomorrow or Saturday night and invite her out. After that though, move on.
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    Default Re: What's my next move?

    Flirt / Attract.... Flirt / Attract.... Flirt / Attract

    Make sure you give a girl a reason to WANT to go out with you.
    She wants to have fun.

    If you don't convey a fun vibe when you're in the early stages, there's a greater chance of her saying no, or flaking out.

    Girls are attracted to confidence & decisiveness. That means, after you build up the attraction come up with a plan & present it in a solid manner.

    When guy simply "asks a girl if she wants to hang out"... they generally get a low success rate. It's too bland & dull sounding.
    It doesn't entice or excite the girl in any way.

    Think FUN!
    Stand out from the rest of the people texting her all day.
    Make her look forward to your texts. That will also make her response time a lot quicker in return.


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