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    Default PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    Hello all:

    I am over 40 and over a long term relationship. At this point in my life I want to have fun. So I have questions about PUA.

    - Is there information for the 40+ men?

    - Were do you normally meet ladies if you are over 40?

    - If you are 40+ and are already using PUA to meet women, what kind of ladies do you meet? And what's their age?

    - Any tips, suggestions, advice care to share

    Regards

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    Default Re: PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    Hey man,
    I'm 43 & can tell you that you can absolutely attract women with the proper techniques.

    I've gone out with women my age - as low as 15-18 yrs younger than I am.

    I first learned about this just under 2 yrs ago.
    It's NOT difficult. You just have to be willing to make changes in the way you may have previously done things.

    But welcome to the forums. You're in the right place.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    I am past my mid 30's, divorced after a 10 year marriage and in the past year I have been been with 2 girls that were 18. Typically I tend to date between 18 and 29.

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    Default Re: PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    Quote Originally Posted by General_Fear View Post
    Hello all:

    I am over 40 and over a long term relationship. At this point in my life I want to have fun. So I have questions about PUA.

    - Is there information for the 40+ men?

    - Were do you normally meet ladies if you are over 40?

    - If you are 40+ and are already using PUA to meet women, what kind of ladies do you meet? And what's their age?

    - Any tips, suggestions, advice care to share

    Regards
    I take it there are places by you that women of this age group frequent, or are you looking for a younger woman.

    A lot depends on your character and your confidence level.

    As you mentioned that you have come away from a long term relationship then it may be difficult to jump straight into all out gaming and I would advise baby steps into it. For example, why not look up where there are local dance classes (Modern Jive, Salsa etc) and go to some of them. This will get you out and dancing with lots of women in the classes. Lots of tidy women go to these.

    I can guarantee that after a little while of going to these classes, you will soon find out where some other places where the single ladies go, plus it will help you in confidence (if you need it) and game prep.

    Hope that helps.

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    Default Re: PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    Thanks for the reply everyone.

    I have gotten out of a long term relationship. So I have not been dating much.

    So here noob question. Ready.

    I have read that the whole dinner and a movie is a thing of the past. That people don't date. So is that true? Dating is dead? If so, how do people do thing now.

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    Default Re: PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    Just don't put a label on it. Date sounds so official and formal. Instead use words like, " We should hang out"or "We should chill over a drink or two".

    Movies and dinner to me are bad dates unless you have been seeing a girl for awhile.

    Better dates are where you get to interact with a girl a lot. Go try a rock climbing wall where you have lots of interaction and kino. Go for a bike ride, rollerblading, skiing, snowboarding, hiking (bring a bottle of wine, chill it in your backpack), bowling, shoot darts, play billiards, go for drinks.

    I usually tell a girl, "I am heading out for drinks come by and have a blast or you can bore yourself at home",

    I say it in a cocky ,funny way. I would say 80 % + plus of the time they show up at the bar. When a girl doesn't show up I will get my pic taken with some girls at the pub/bar/restaurant or worst case scenerio get my pic taken with a waitress ( they want tips and will be happy to take a pic with you) .

    Then I text the girl with a message like, " Hey you boring nerd, you missed out on a SUPERB time. It was a total blast. I'll tell you about it some other time." Also text her the pic from the bar along with that message. Watch her drop hints over the next week aboutwhen you're next going out for drink. She will want to come with you.

    By doing this you are showing her that you aren't needy,you don't depend on the choice of one girl to make your night, that you are an alpha man that meets beautiful women when you are out because you love to have fun and if she wants to have fun she should to be with you. That's the association she will make.

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    Default Re: PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    You have more going for you than you know, experience above all else. I sarge with my pops at times, he's 54 and let me tell you this dude gets down, and it's the most natural process of game I've ever seen. Believe me, women check you out more than you think and you have a good edge.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

    Better known as Debauchivalrious...

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    Default Re: PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    Hi all - I am new to the forum. I am wondering how all this works if you have a young kid? Does that just ruin all game or is it still possible to be a successful PUA? Thanks

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    Default Re: PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    45 year-old married and divorcing man here. Just learning about PUA techniques and starting dating again.

    40s are the new 20s as far as I'm concerned. If a woman sees your age as a weakness, turn it into a strength. When a girl says you're old or too old, point out that you have money, a car, your own place, a career, and years of experience with relationships. You've traveled places and done and seen things younger women will find interesting. You can share career advice with women, and so on.

    I can't stress enough how important it is to have your own place. I live in a big college town and a lot of the girls I've hooked up with in the past were 19 or 20 and had roommates. I offer them a respite from the roomie drama, let them do their laundry and stay overnight with me, and have some privacy.

    Good luck. Stay positive, and ask for help when you need it.

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    Default Re: PUA for 40+ men. Advice for an older man?

    Dee Cee ...... I'm 45 and since I got divorced at 40 have dated mostly girls in there 20's ..... If I had only known about this PUA stuff in my 20's HA HA HA !!!!!


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