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    Default statement of intent

    Do you do statement of intent? In mystery method, we should not reveal our purpose until we make out with the girl during seduction phase.
    If we do statement of intent, how can she maintain the plausible deniability?

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    Default Re: statement of intent

    Its better to show her over escalation than do anything gay like talk to her about it.
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    Default Re: statement of intent

    There IS a way to incorporate a statement of intent as you begin escalation that can be very effective.
    Jon Sinn has several examples that are solid.

    It allows you to gauge her response to see if she's going to be compliant.

    One would be something like this:
    "You know, if you don't quit being so adorable, I'm totally gonna start flirting with you... and it's gonna be your fault."

    If she doesn't terminate the interaction at that point, she is basically giving you the go-ahead to start ramping up the escalation & flirt even more.

    What usually happens is the girl will blush, giggle & smile.

    Commence flirting to a higher degree.



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    Default Re: statement of intent

    I like T-Mals advice. I'm not sure what your exactly asking here, but I see no problem in stating your intent. The last two girls I dated I went extremely direct with. Granted, I knew they were already into me but I hadn't even k-closed yet, just light flirting. I told them how beautiful they were and what qualities of their personality I really enjoyed. I also told them I was interested in them. I was as direct as you can possibly be. The look on their faces was of utter amazement and attraction. They had never been with a guy that was so straightforward. It worked wonders and it was exactly what I was thinking, so it was genuine.

    I started doing this after I read The Manual: what women want and how to give it to them. I'm surprised I haven't seen anyone comment on this book here. It's all about direct game. Basically being as direct and straightforward as possible. The only other book I've read that preaches a direct approach as straightforward as this is Be Relentless by David X. It takes audacity and boldness to pull it off but it can work wonders.

    I would like your opinion on this T-Mal, because this style is almost opposite yours. You are extremely playful flirty while being somewhat direct, while this approach really isn't flirty. It's telling a girl exactly what your thinking about her and your intentions right off the bat in a very straightforward way.

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    Default Re: statement of intent

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    I like T-Mals advice. I'm not sure what your exactly asking here, but I see no problem in stating your intent. The last two girls I dated I went extremely direct with. Granted, I knew they were already into me but I hadn't even k-closed yet, just light flirting. I told them how beautiful they were and what qualities of their personality I really enjoyed. I also told them I was interested in them. I was as direct as you can possibly be. The look on their faces was of utter amazement and attraction. They had never been with a guy that was so straightforward. It worked wonders and it was exactly what I was thinking, so it was genuine.

    I started doing this after I read The Manual: what women want and how to give it to them. I'm surprised I haven't seen anyone comment on this book here. It's all about direct game. Basically being as direct and straightforward as possible. The only other book I've read that preaches a direct approach as straightforward as this is Be Relentless by David X. It takes audacity and boldness to pull it off but it can work wonders.

    I would like your opinion on this T-Mal, because this style is almost opposite yours. You are extremely playful flirty while being somewhat direct, while this approach really isn't flirty. It's telling a girl exactly what your thinking about her and your intentions right off the bat in a very straightforward way.
    But why does Mystery advocate indirect game and why does his indirect game also work so well? Why does Mystery emphasize plausible deniability?
    Thanks for recommending the two books.

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    Default Re: statement of intent

    Jack, Mystery's Method isn't the holy book of PUA. It's like a martial art that other martial arts eventually evolve from.

    Indirect Game and Direct Game has their strengths in a different environment.

    For example, in a professional setting such as work, you might want to be careful going Direct. However, in a bar, when a girl is obvious eyeing you with interest, you don't go indirect or else she will think you weird.

    Mystery advocates indirect game, showing disinterest, etc because it is his strength and from his experience he has been most successful at it probably because he executes it well naturally. But it may not work well for others. I give you an example. If you look at Mystery, he doesn't have that vibrant character/personality. He is kinda deadpan. Whereas if you have a guy with strong outgoing charisma that can make a girl "feel" with just the force of his personality, his strength may lie with going Direct.

    However to say, that there is one PUA method that works on all women is BS. Like a martial art, you select a style/system or whatever that best matches you. Nowadays, people just cross-train, expand their minds and take the best of everything.


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