I know that it is a lot easier to attract a girl if we are positive. However, I don't want to be positive, I just want to be rational. I feel sometimes being positive just means wishful thinking. I don't want to cheat myself. Being negative can make me cautious therefore help me. I will try to fend off or minimize the negative possibilities. Of course it is not good if we are overly negative.
I also fear that being positive will alienate people, because they think that they are in a different world from you. Because you don’t share the same feelings as them.
What do you think of it?