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    Default GYM Pick-up..pulled trigger to soon?

    Hey Guys,

    So this morning at the gym, I spotted this big booty light brown skinned trinidadian 20 yr old, doing squats (of all things!) at the gym. Funny thing is, she was with a guy I immediately approached her without hesitation and told her my line of "Hey is your name _____? No? I swear you have a twin" she laughs and says shes always confused with someone else. anyways, I excuse myself after a min and say "ill talk to you later, as I look over and see the guy with her, coming back. she smiles. an hour later, I approach again and say "I gotta go, but I put you in my phone as Aiesha the twin" youre number is 905------- she completes it after some hesitation..then to my surprise she says to me "Hey, do you wanna get out of here?" Bamm. I reply let's go. She LEAVES the guy she was with and leaves with me....now we end up going to a tim hortons for coffee. after small talk and some food, I turn the convo to a sexual nature and directly tell her "You have a nice ass, have to admit I was checking it out" she loves it. asks me if im "like a bunny" I say yes i am actually... I f*ck hard and fast. she says to me "do you want to go somehwere more private" again ...BAMMM! We go to her car and sit in the front. she asks me "now what were you saying about my ass?" I continue with how nice it is and how id like to see it...I then assume were f*** and say to her lets drive the car behind the store. She says "No, I cant, I just got out of gym, I need to be clean." I agree..and we talk about maybe coming to my house but I push her away a bit by saying "well id have you over at my house tonight, but I have to meet up with someone" she says "ya". Then she tells me she has a "physio appointment" and has to go.....I get out of her car and we leave seperately

    What happened? I swear she was down to f***, did I appear to desperate or something? I have her number still and next week im going to invite her out again to try and f close....Im thinking maybe I should have played with the idea more of sex..like made her work for it more...would this have been a better tactic, or did I do the best possible considering we just got out of gym?
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    Default Re: GYM Pick-up..pulled trigger to soon?

    Awww, man, you screwed the pooch on that one! I knew a trinidadian and yea...dat ass...

    Anyways, based on your dialogue, where it went all wrong was "well id have you over at my house tonight, but I have to meet up with someone"

    That broke it. It probably crossed her mind that you had to meet possibly another girl. Regardless of who you met, she didn't feel like 2nd priority so it turned her off. When there is a wave like this you need to ride it!

    If you want to push, you should've teased her. "I love your ass, it's so ravishing. Too bad you remind me of your twin. She was crazy. But she was Egyptian" or something along those lines.

    To seal the deal in bringing her over, you should've set up for plausible deniability. This would require you to establish some comfort and find out what she likes. Find out what you both have in common. And then tell her, hey I have this cool [X] I want to show you on my computer. I want your opinion on it."

    You could've closed right then and there and had hot Trinidadian ass on your cock!

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    Default Re: GYM Pick-up..pulled trigger to soon?

    Whoa and here I thought Gym game was impossible and you went the extra mile. First off I could never even get that far with a Gym girl. But wow can't believe you pulled that off with such a cliche opener.

    Either way you demonstrated lower value and she is gone at this point. My guess is she will play hard to get at this point and try to play you. If you want it you are going to have to work extra hard. Girls always do this. Guys are afraid of success. When she said she wanted to get clean you should have said "Yeah let's go take a shower together." I think that's what she wanted and since you didn't go all the way she may have a lower opinion of you from here on out and just use it against you to tease you.

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    Default Re: GYM Pick-up..pulled trigger to soon?

    Jack, how the f**k did i demonstrate lower value? I was the one who suggested we f**ck behind the store in her car! I hadto go to work inan hour so of coursw i wasnt going to suggest going back to my place....and even if i wasnt, how does me not inviting her back shipwreck myself and demonstrate lower value? I was the one escalating and speakin sex.. explain this. Id like to know.
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    Default Re: GYM Pick-up..pulled trigger to soon?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ecko30 View Post
    Hey Guys,
    I push her away a bit by saying "well id have you over at my house tonight, but I have to meet up with someone" she says "ya". Then she tells me she has a "physio appointment" and has to go.....I get out of her car and we leave seperately

    Killed it mate. She followed suit and also pulled away. All I am saying.

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    Default Re: GYM Pick-up..pulled trigger to soon?

    alright thanks Jack


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    Default Re: GYM Pick-up..pulled trigger to soon?

    Let me compliment you first on the pickup. It was well done.

    Now I am going to tell you how you could have done a couple of things differently.

    1/ As the others have pointed that the " I'd invite you over but...." was the wrong thing to say.

    2/ You escalated way too quickly which created LMR that was problem #2.

    3/ Instead of showing and investing so much in her so quickly you could have slowed it down just a touch. getting her to qualify herself a bit more for sex by looking ever, ever so slightly hesitant.

    What I learned from David X was that you can throw out a challenge and girls will readily accept it. You could have said: "I have left with 2 girls I met at the gym, not at the same day with both.. that was a long while back but after a workout they could never make me have an orgasm so I am a bit hesitant but then again they didn't have an AMAZING ass like yours." A bit of push and pull at the same time.

    That is a challenge to her to show you that she can make you orgasm. She would have took that challenge.

    In his book David X uses the example if you want a girl to swallow say something like this, " You know you're going to think this is crazy but no girl has ever made me have an orgasm in her mouth... ever. They've tried but I just can't". Watch the girl take up that challenge.

    I have used this and I have had AWESOME success with it. I have used variations of this to overcome LMR in general.

    You did great man... next time I know you'll close the deal.


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