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    Question how to overcome the fear of STDs

    Let's face facts. There is always a chance that a condom may break when you are having a one night stand, hiring an escort, being intimate with your girlfriend etc. Even if not, if you want to have kids, you are going to have to lose the condom at least once. But for the man who's behind in his game and not as experienced, this fear can make sex intimidating. How does one overcome the fear of STDs?

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    Default Re: how to overcome the fear of STDs

    You have to be cautious for sure.
    But you can't let fear run your life. Whether its in this context or any other.

    You run the risk of being in a car accident every time you get on the road... But you just learn to be as careful as possible.
    You wear your seat belt & keep driving.

    There's always that risk. It's up to the individual to decide how to handle it.

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    Default Re: how to overcome the fear of STDs

    [QUOTELet's face facts. There is always a chance that a condom may break when you are having a One Night Stand, hiring an escort, being intimate with your girlfriend etc. Even if not, if you want to have kids, you are going to have to lose the condom at least once. But for the man who's behind in his game and not as experienced, this fear can make sex intimidating. How does one overcome the fear of STDs?[/QUOTE]

    first off, buy good condoms. (I like Trojan) if your worried it will break get the thicker more durable ones.

    if your still afraid of your condom breaking, I urge you to try one on and fap as hard as you can. you will find that they are a lot more durable than people give them credit.

    of course there is always a slight risk, you can't avoid that. but using good condoms certainly reduces the risk of std's and unwanted pregnancy.

    another interesting thing that I learned witch relieved my fears, is the fact that the most common std's are all treatable with modern medicine (most stds other than herpes, and hiv)

    again, like t-mal said, there's always a slight risk involved, but it's a risk I'm willing to take.

    just remember, always wrap it before you tap it.

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    Default Re: how to overcome the fear of STDs

    Like Meteora said, most std's can be treated with medicine. If your not vaccinated against HPV do that NOW! HPV is the most common STD. I've had condom's break on me a couple times, but they were always the ultra-thin type and they were ones I had carried in my pocket for awhile. Don't buy ultra-thin and if you carry them in your pocket for a night and don't use them, throw them away. You should be fine if you do this.


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