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Thread: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

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    Default Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    NOTE: I initially already had this girl on Facebook but she has been dormant on it for a LONG time [like no fb post since March 2013]

    Okay so 2 years ago I seen this HB8 at my highschool and I didn't really talk to her because I had major AA and was basically AFC. But just before the school year ended I played a talent show which caught her attention. she actually told me I did good (after the show). I was thinking about her yesterday and ironically today I saw her while I was waiting for my friend inside Mcdonalds. I approached her and she remembered me. I do Direct Game so I was honest and Opened telling her that she looks amazing (which made her blush a bit and say thank you). so we had basic Rapport and I threw in some flirts like telling her she will be a sexy nurse (she's wants to be a nurse). The funny thing throughout all this was that her brother/father/friend WAS THERE! waiting on the line seperate from us talking (which I didn't notice till a little into our convo)

    Anyway. I asked if she goes on Facebook (which I knew she doesn't ) but asked anyway. She said she forgot her password and that "I don't really use anything online anymore"

    Then i asked if she had a phone and she said that it broke recently and that she had to get a new one. BUT She told me to take down her FATHERS cell number as it's our only way of communication, so I did. What do you guys think about this? I never been in a situation like this so I'm skeptic if it's a flake or is she is being honest. [i haven't texted her pops yet]

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    Default Re: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    I personally wouldn't text him, it's her Dad who might pretend it's her or see the messages, you know what I mean? When I was younger and my phone was shut off I'd use my Dad's phone to text girlfriends and when they texted him he wouldn't tell me and pretend it was me, which he found really funny though it really pissed me off lol. From the way you make it sound it sounds legitimate to me, but I personally wouldn't do it.

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    Default Re: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    Yea, I wouldn't either because whatever you text he may see. I know how fathers can be protective of their daughters. That's the sh1tty thing about having a daughter. With a son, you worry about one d1ck. With a daughter, you worry about every d1ck in town.

    I would wait a while and call that number. And if the father answers ask him to speak to the daughter. The whole purpose of the call is to find out of she has her own phone yet. If she does then get that info. Hopefully, by then her attraction hasn't fade. Tough situation. But this situation will force you to man up and call old school style instead of relying on texting.

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    Default Re: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    Thanks for the heads up on not to text. Calling sounds like a way better option. I'll wait till I get my new phone next week and atempt a call. But what would I do if her fathers says that she's not available to talk on the phone? Should I do some Alpha move and ask her pops permission for a date with his daughter? Or just say that I'll call another time

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    Default Re: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    Honestly, I would scrap the idea of contacting her on that number altogether.

    A girl that says she doesn't get online ever? AND gives you her dad's number?

    I think you need to read between the lines here & realize she's not all that interested right now.
    You need to let this one go, OR find a way to start flirting more in person, in order to get her actual phone number.

    And you're not gonna be able to "out-alpha" her dad.

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    Default Re: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    Fuck 10 other girls. If you were in true abundance you wouldnt worry bout any one number, let alone take the time to make an entire article about one girl.
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    Default Re: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    Quote Originally Posted by Dimebagcfh51 View Post
    Thanks for the heads up on not to text. Calling sounds like a way better option. I'll wait till I get my new phone next week and atempt a call. But what would I do if her fathers says that she's not available to talk on the phone? Should I do some Alpha move and ask her pops permission for a date with his daughter? Or just say that I'll call another time
    No absolutely don't do that. This isn't the 1950s. Just leave a message and have her call you back. And end it at that. I wouldn't hold your breath though as the other guys do have a point. And to be honest, most guys would scrap the whole idea, especially if this is a cold pickup.

    The reason why I said this is worth investigating into because I remember when I was in high school and performed in a talent show. If you do well, your social value goes up as you stand out. And we know what girls are attracted to - The perception of status - especially in high school where girls are more shallow.

    But you said 2 years went by...I don't know man. I think you missed the train. What I would've done was I would've shot for D1 right then and there and if she said if she wasn't sure of her schedule and give you the run around, I would've said "You know what, it's okay. Clearly you're not interested enough. It was nice seeing you again." DONE It's either a fvck yes or no.

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    Default Re: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    Yeah I the set didn't go as well as it could have. I think the pressure of her family and friend caused her to not be very receptive as she normally would be if she was alone. But that's fine. I'm not sure about you guys but I'm the type who likes to push my comfort zone so not making a attempt to me is like taking the easy way out or just giving up without even trying. If I do make a attempt and fail, then I'll just stop. But in the meantime I will continue doing my daily sets and get more digits.

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    Default Re: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Honestly, I would scrap the idea of contacting her on that number altogether.

    A girl that says she doesn't get online ever? AND gives you her dad's number?

    I think you need to read between the lines here & realize she's not all that interested right now.
    You need to let this one go, OR find a way to start flirting more in person, in order to get her actual phone number.

    And you're not gonna be able to "out-alpha" her dad.

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    That's a good point. But I also think that if she really wasn't interested she should have just made up a fake number instead of going through the process of giving me her dads number

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    Default Re: Actual N-close or flakey number? [Please read]

    But that's fine. I'm not sure about you guys but I'm the type who likes to push my Comfort zone so not making a attempt to me is like taking the easy way out or just giving up without even trying. If I do make a attempt and fail, then I'll just stop. But in the meantime I will continue doing my daily sets and get more digits.
    You got the right idea. You fail 100% if you don't try. And besides, you got nothing to lose. Let us know how it goes.


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