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    chuck is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I need some SERIOUS HELP!!!! :(

    Iíve been in the game for a few years and feel Iíve come along way since.

    For the last year or so, Iíve been building GREAT initial attraction. Iím to the point where itís not a big deal to meet an attractive woman that is really into me at first. The problem is Iím getting ďone nightedĒ a LOT. Itís typical for me to meet a lady, develop enough attraction so she will want to sleep with me. Iíve even gotten a few offers for friends with benefits.

    The times I do manage to pull off a relationship, theyíre always short lived. I can sense the attraction on her end declining, so Iíll end up breaking it offÖ.

    Obviously, this is something on me. Iím doing something WRONG! Iím far from being a rock star, but I do lead a decent lifestyle: educated, career, decent digs, decent car, decent clothes, intelligent, and moderately attractive in the looks department.. I know it is not lame sex either (gotten offers for friends with benefits more than once).

    Ideas on where to go from here?????

    I did not want to write a novel here. If needed I can go into more detail.

    Thank you!
    Soft talkin' with a rap so sweet, the ladies call him the candy wrapper!

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    Trickstar is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I need some SERIOUS HELP!!!! :(

    What do you mean by feeling the attraction fading? What kind of things do you do in those short relationships and how short is "short"?

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    chuck is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I need some SERIOUS HELP!!!! :(

    Quote Originally Posted by Trickstar View Post
    What do you mean by feeling the attraction fading? What kind of things do you do in those short relationships and how short is "short"?

    Attraction fading? I can tell they are losing interest. It's not a feeling, per say, but I can tell they are becoming less interested in me.

    How long are the "relationships" lasting?
    Varies: from a few weeks (shortest) to four months (longest).
    Soft talkin' with a rap so sweet, the ladies call him the candy wrapper!

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    Default Re: I need some SERIOUS HELP!!!! :(

    I personally would recommend reading "The Tao Of Badass".
    (Or getting the package with the MP3 audio version too)

    That little gem personally taught me a LOT!
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