Now just in December I made the biggest AFC moves ever and I'm probably friendzoned atm or maybe not ( who knows) but not in an awesome situation to be in either way.
So I started to go over to this girls house near end of December only went twice till I ruined it.
First day was great and I was able to keep a strong frame. Second day I got all afc and made a huge mess of things, so f*cked up. I got a little drunk and high with her and just did some emberassing things. Once I got slightly drunk I started to over think everything and started to say to myself I'm going to hit the friendzone if I keep going at this rate and I ended up disagreeing way to much and gave off a negative vibe. Then the biggest and most stupidest mistake I ever made was that when she asked me to leave ( at like 4 a.m in the morning) I didn't, soo stupid of me. So she messages me the next day and tells me to never show up at her house again, which is crappy yet we were still talking over text a lot. Now we were working on something together and when she did her half I was unappreciative of it and she got really pissed, once I said sorry it all came crashing down. She completely just did not want to do anything that had to do with me. stopped texting and only using email to contact me.
One day I saw her walking down the street and spoke to her a bit and she gave me cold body language and wasn't talking much and IOD'd the sh*t out of me. So I walk home thinking its over and a few days later she messages me saying everything was fine and she still wanted to work on what we were doing together. Thing is I replied with an afc email agreeing with every single thing she said LOL ( like wtf is wrong with me?) which got no reply and a couple of failed texts and so I go NC her for 2 weeks and emailed her again after doing some reading and she gives replies now.
Now my question is how do I rebuild the attraction here, there is like zero attraction here I believe all comfort I assume? This is one big mess I'm trying to clean up. How can I get this back to where it was. Also what are some things that might be going through her head that I need to change? Where do I go from here to regain my frame? Anything else you guys feel the need to add in is also appreciated. Thanks guys !