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    Default conversational skills

    How do I move through smalltalk to attraction in 4 hours

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    Default Re: conversational skills

    skip the small talk, go straight for attraction and work into comfort.

    I don't feel like writing out a ton of stuff, so do me a favor and read the book "how to meet and connect with women" by wayne elise
    it will tell you everything you need to know about getting into comfort and building a connection. (plus it can be found in pdf form on the internet for free. google search it.)

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    Default Re: conversational skills

    Jesus, if I had 4 hours to talk to a girl I was actually interested in, we'd be screwing by the end, or at least going on a date with-in the next week.

    I'm going to keep it short since I have lots of homework to finish that I should be doing.

    Build attraction first. Give her sh1t tests. Just be playful and fun. Push/pull. Once you have her hooked, and you'll know, because she'll be invested in the conversation and blushing or laughing at everything you say, then build comfort.
    Runs lots of qualifiers, and relate with her a ton. etc.
    And last but not least, have the attitude that you just don't give a Fark.
    Its a lot easier said then done, but you'll get the hang of it.

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    Default Re: conversational skills

    meteora's method is one way of going about with it. One way that works for me is running light banter to build up snippets of rapport, then after a few topics I try to push it into full out escalation mode. If she doesn't respond well, then go back to bantering. If she does respond well, then you're golden.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: conversational skills

    Do read the PDF meteora suggested. Its the single most useful document, book, or article I've seen on PUA material. Its full of information that you can implement immediately and easily.


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