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    Onthereg888 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Setting up Day 2 with Bartender

    Hey guys -

    Appreciate any help/thoughts you can offer me in advance.

    On Sunday, I went to a local bar by myself. Just wanted to grab a few beers and apps. I thought the bartender was cute, but didn't really give her a second thought at first. Soon enough, we start talking and next thing I know I realized how much I wanted her. We had an amazing conversation, have tons in common, talked for over an hour. Just completely hitting it off. I picked up a ton of IOI's from her. She was stroking her hair, staring at me and hanging on every word, and kept playing with her earring over and over.

    Only problem was her boss was right there so I couldn't get her number, but she gave me her full name and told me to add her on Facebook, which I did the next day.

    I added her on FB the next night (didn't have her number at this point), making a joke about her boss and saying let's have drinks soon. She responded immediately, said 'Hi (my name)! It was great to meet you yesterday, glad you came in! We should definitely grab drinks soon. My number is (she left me her number).'

    So she offered up her number without me even asking for it. Next, I wait a solid 24 hours, and sent a text last night. No response from her, nada. What's the plan now? Give it a few days and reopen with a neg/teasing?

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    surferdude is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 with Bartender

    First off, nice job landing the number with the cute bartender. If she hasn't responded yet I'd wait two or three days, then follow up with what you were suggesting. Don't be reactive. Pretend you had no idea she didn't answer you.

    Chances are she's shit testing you. Bartenders get hit on constantly.

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    Onthereg888 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Setting up Day 2 with Bartender

    Awesome, thanks for the response. I was expecting a shit test, so I have no problem waiting it out a few days. I'd like to lock something down for this weekend with her though. Not coming off like an AFC though, I'll tell you that!


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