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Thread: Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

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    Default Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

    After all these years I got my first number guys. I don't want to mess this up.

    Please help me. how should I go ahead from here. I spent about 3 weeks attracting, comforting this girl but I got her number today. I K.N.O.W she likes me.

    Today's a thursday, do you guys have any ideas for the weekend. We're in university.

    Thanks guys, I look forward to your advice.

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    Default Re: Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

    Ok so this is your first number in years, or ever. It doesn't matter. What matters is if you're trying so hard to text her something witty, or make sure your D1 goes perfectly, it will go to shit. Trust me. You are one cool motherfarker and you should act like it. A lot of us wonder and sometimes worry about what to say to a girl via text because we have so much more time to think and in turn we end up over analyzing it. DO NOT DO THAT. Don't even think about it. If you can't come up with something interesting to text her with, call her and make it playful! "Hey, I'm planning on going out tonight but it would be awesome if we grabbed a drink(or something) beforehand and we can hang out a bit! What do you say meet at 9:06 at wherever?" Do whatever you want to do. Make sure it is cool though and not a boring generic date. Coffee or drinks is fine but make sure it's interesting and that she has a good time.

    Be the alpha. And the omega. But never the beta. Hah that's a good one actually.

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    Default Re: Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

    Hey kye, iamtheflow is right. You don't want to be too attached to her outcome or response. With that said, you can have a very short and playful conversation over text, but aim to set up a date immediately. No deep conversations over text and you can't escalate on the phone. Try to keep a 1:1 ratio in text length responses, meaning don't text more than she does to you.

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    Default Re: Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

    Should I call or text? What do you guys think.

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    Default Re: Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

    S.H.!.T

    I think I just messed up. I don't think it was a horrible text, but I didn't get a reply. This was kinda late too - around 11pm. here's what I wrote (kind of paraphrased):

    "(nickname)! lolz I'm looking at these 3 girls here debating about twilight. reminded me of you!" (her name is kristin)

    Anyway, as you can guess by my frequent posting here, I'm losing my mind. I haven't texted her since and I won't lie, I think I'm losing attraction here. My plan for now is to wait till tomorrow and call her sometime during the day and go from there.

    I'd appreciate any advice/suggestions here. thanks guys.

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    Default Re: Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

    Just remember it's a numbers game.When I got my first number I tried too hard to get a reply.


    Don't stress about it. You're the prize if she doesn't ever reply then it's her fault for losing out on an awesome guy! Keep that mentality.

    As for calling I personally wouldn't. Let her breathe. Not every number blossoms into a gf or a lay. Either wait for a response or text her with something interesting in a few days.


    Congrats on the number dude, the first of many!
    Last edited by Othello the Great; 02-07-2014 at 12:24 AM. Reason: gramma!

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    Default Re: Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

    So I'll be brutally honest with you, mostly because I've been drinking tonight. You need to quit stressing about this situation. If nothing comes from this girl then it's her loss and the only direction you can go is up. Until you learn this is just one big learning curve you're just going to stay in a rut thinking about what you could've said or what could've happened.

    Who gives a shit about what you say? Say whatever you want, but be smart about it. If it works then awesome, you're in!! But if it doesn't, then you're out. At least if you get shot down then you know what not to do. And knowing what you shouldn't do is better than knowing what to do because you can expand your knowledge and continue to progress with whatever it is you want. If you stick with only one thing that works for you, that is boring and that is definitely not what any one of us have been taught, or teach.

    Drunk wisdom. Get on my level.

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    Default Re: Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

    Iamtheflow hit the nail on the head. After a while, you lose that feeling of "omg did I mess this up?" because you know you can just meet someone else. You don't know you fucked up. She could be shit testing you or just busy. Wait it out. If she doesn't answer you in two days, just reopen her with something fun and teasing.

    It truly is a learning curve. As you build your knowledge and confidence you will look back and realize how far you've come. It feels really good. Learn, approach, and have fun with it.

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    Default Re: Got my first number ! - I need you guys.

    Thanks surfer. I hope she responds. I followed up on the text as I had written. Just called her up about an hour and a half ago (4 pm). Since today's a friday I thought I'd ask her to come play pool with me.

    I did read on not asking girls on Friday but I did it anyway. Anyway, she didn't answer so I just left a message. I've read some stuff on leaving messages but the jury is split on the matter, so I think it shouldn't be too much trouble. I tried to be non needy and not clingy. Made it seem spontaneous.

    But unfortunately she hasn't replied. I'm hoping she does but in any case I'll try and wait. It's pretty disheartening but I'm hoping that she will eventually get at me.


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