Im 31 and I contacted my first "girlfriend" ever from 6th grade on facebook, its been 20 years and we went on a date this past Wedesday night. Everything went very well, went went out to eat and dancing. At the dancehall we started holding hands, making out, sexual inuendo's, etc. I drove back to her place she invited me in, i agreed as I was having a great time and didnt want it to end. We ended up having sex twice and lots of talking too. Afterwards driving home I actually felt sad in a weird way, as I had this gut feeling like she almost just used me for sex which would be great but im looking for something more serious in this time of my life. There was one time we were laying on the bed and i was looking at her and she asked me what i was looking at...I told her this little hair under her naval...she replied dont make me point out all your flaws...I just replied go ahead(im in very good shape so i had nothing to hide)...First she commented about a hair growing out of my shoulder...then i noticed she started staring at my hair on my head and touching it Every once in awhile throughout the night she would look at it and touch it weirdly. I have a number 2 on top and i put pomade on it so it wont look fuzzy..well later on when i get home i notice in a lot of places the pomade had came out during sex making my hair look like it had thick and thin patches making it look splotchy. My point is could of this turned her off and why i had that weird feeling when i left. The next day we texted a little and i had mentioned a friends birthday on the date, so i texted her to come with me to the birthday party but she said she was tired and had to work early...we texted a little bit after that but that was it. Something just didnt feel right when i left her house but i had a good feeling til about the part when she was looking at my hair. I would like something more then a one night fling with her..Should I ask her out again immediately, bring up the hair incident, see if she texts me first, what do you think a good plan of action would be?