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    Default She Replied! FB gaming a 10

    Help please my freeze worked on a 10 after I sent one message she replied flirting saying "You're welcome" after I told her "Wanted to see if we got chemistry" and this is her second message. I never thought this would work but the freeze was very effective. I am on edge cuz I am new to this online stuff and better in real world interactions. This 10 man is friggin gorgeous. What should I do? For the record I normally super suck online. I have been at it for over a year, friended this random HB10 and messaged her right away and she is keeping me in the loop. Normally I never get replies so this is a huge amount of progress.
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    Default Re: She Replied! FB gaming a 10

    Congrats on your success.


    The main thing I want to stress is make sure she is not catfishing you. Facebook is infested with internet trolls creating a multitude of fake profiles. Check her pictures and to make sure they don't look "modelly (or if she has one picture is a HUGE red flag) and that she has a sufficient amount of friends for a person of her attractiveness.


    Now that that's out the way, it is so easy for women to ignore someone online. At the click of a button they can block/ignore any cornball or internet flirt that infiltrates their inbox. With that being said, you have to bring the ENERGY. You have to show personality through messaging that she doesn't receive from the hordes of guys who message her on the daily.

    MAKE HER LOOK FORWARD TO YOUR REPLIES. Be spontaneous, cocky (to a degree), and be fun. Don't interview her with questions and make every reply useful seeing as one wrong/boring reply can warrant a no response. Do you have any messages you could share from your exchanges so I and others could further suggest how to go forward?


    But the basis of this rant is to make every message meaningful, don't over message her and be flirtatious. Soon you're going to have to push for the phone number and eventual meet up. I'd suggest skyping with her if you can to see her face and ease your nerves/portray your confidence.


    I'm more into daygame and direct approaching so I am in no ways seasoned in this field but there's a lot of stuff here to help you with online game. Read T-Mal's DON'T DO THIS post and I believe he has other Online Game tips on here.

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    Default Re: She Replied! FB gaming a 10

    The easiest way to see if it's a fake profile is to do a Google image search on her profile picture. Simple as that. However, you can usually tell when a profile is fake or not.

    Unfortunately you won't get really good advice at the moment. That's because we need more info. As of right now, things still don't look good for you, because it looks like a very boring conversation is going on right now, and she may not even be interested.

    Can you post the actual conversation you have been having with her?
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    Default Re: She Replied! FB gaming a 10

    Her profile is legit. I know what you guys are saying though there is a lot of call girls out there doing it to up their business, models doing it to get validation, and fake profiles to get guys to call some number for paid chat in another state. So she is none of the above as she has a legit profile. I have definitely been played a lot by those types of girls on FB and POF so now I have a better head on my shoulders to know when I am getting played earlier on.

    That Oneitis man so glad it's finally gone but it took me a while to plow through it. Now I am sending much less messages with women and giving more freeze outs/breaks. Just sent her my 3rd message to which all my messages have got responses to because I put her on NC as soon as I send it. Just putting them on a freeze after every message for a minimum of 3 days. So my first I sent and froze her out and she got back to me in a day and my second message I froze her out a day and she got back to me. Putting her on another freeze for 3 days for her to get back. But the way I USED to do it I wouldn't get a response and sometimes send 3-12 messages in a 48 hour interval since I was so needy for affection. Now I am going to up my game and contact less and write less. I usually send paragraphs every time but now I am practicing on sending shorter messages along with the longer ones. This NC rule of 3 days is starting to prove ever more effective but needs more testing.

    3 Days No Contact
    From now on I might use this method more liberally of going 3 days before sending another message if at all. So I just sent her my last message a few minutes ago and putting her on a 3 day freeze to hear back from her. It has been taking her about 1 day to get back to me each time. I think that shows a high level of interest and now she is breaking out with the flirting so I did break out some flirting on my part and really threw down a challenge to her. Will post the entire convo once I experience the final outcome.

    I don't want to post it pre-maturely because I don't want it to pop up on Google until I know what the outcome is but I will definitely keep you guys in the loop if I get her number and such. I have noticed online it takes more time to build comfort before going for the number so I am going to wait for her to give me definite IOI's before N-closing. This is actually the same method I use in-field as I never close a Set before getting IOI's and even have been known to eject without a close if I never get any validation and this is very powerful in demonstrating value.
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    3 days NC after every message? That is highly overkill.. And a huge waste of your own time and hers. Freeze outs are meant to be used in certain situations only, usually to revamp attraction that has been lost, not usually to create it in the first place.

    Think of the rules of text game here. You don't want to send more than one message at a time unless maybe if she did. But, you also don't want to be predictable. Predictable is boring. Boring is a conversation killer. You have nothing but the online interaction to lure her in.. Waiting that long between messages will surely kill your chances in the long run, as well as waste all sorts of time.

    Switch up the time between messages. Both when I'm texting a girl and when I'm having an online conversation; the time intervals between messages are purely based on the FEEL I am getting based on her attraction level. Sometimes when I'm texting and she is very interested, it goes into what I call 'rapid-fire texting', when you're sending messages back and forth instantly for a period of time... I've done this for hours with girls before, and it only happens when the attraction is through the roof.

    Start trying to base how long you wait to message her on how interested you think she is in the interaction and in you. This is not something that will come instantly but it's something that you will get better at over time. The more attraction and investment on her end, the less time you essentially need to wait, and the less you need to think about time intervals in general.

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    Default Re: She Replied! FB gaming a 10

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    3 days NC after every message? That is highly overkill.. And a huge waste of your own time and hers. Freeze outs are meant to be used in certain situations only, usually to revamp attraction that has been lost, not usually to create it in the first place.

    Think of the rules of text game here. You don't want to send more than one message at a time unless maybe if she did. But, you also don't want to be predictable. Predictable is boring. Boring is a conversation killer. You have nothing but the online interaction to lure her in.. Waiting that long between messages will surely kill your chances in the long run, as well as waste all sorts of time.

    Switch up the time between messages. Both when I'm texting a girl and when I'm having an online conversation; the time intervals between messages are purely based on the FEEL I am getting based on her attraction level. Sometimes when I'm texting and she is very interested, it goes into what I call 'rapid-fire texting', when you're sending messages back and forth instantly for a period of time... I've done this for hours with girls before, and it only happens when the attraction is through the roof.

    Start trying to base how long you wait to message her on how interested you think she is in the interaction and in you. This is not something that will come instantly but it's something that you will get better at over time. The more attraction and investment on her end, the less time you essentially need to wait, and the less you need to think about time intervals in general.

    Elaborate. Very good content but kinda cryptic. You are saying I can message AS MUCH as I want as long as I feel like it as long as it is not too needy right? I was thinking the NC rule was a great idea to prevent me looking needy but you are saying that will never work and without a reply I should send more messages then? Not sure what this means exactly as far as application (10 messages No Reply before NC or 5 Messages before NC) but understand your theory behind it. So how many messages would you recommend before going NC on them? NC has been very powerful so far.
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    Default Re: She Replied! FB gaming a 10

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    3 days NC after every message? That is highly overkill.. And a huge waste of your own time and hers. Freeze outs are meant to be used in certain situations only, usually to revamp attraction that has been lost, not usually to create it in the first place.

    Think of the rules of text game here. You don't want to send more than one message at a time unless maybe if she did. But, you also don't want to be predictable. Predictable is boring. Boring is a conversation killer. You have nothing but the online interaction to lure her in.. Waiting that long between messages will surely kill your chances in the long run, as well as waste all sorts of time.

    Switch up the time between messages. Both when I'm texting a girl and when I'm having an online conversation; the time intervals between messages are purely based on the FEEL I am getting based on her attraction level. Sometimes when I'm texting and she is very interested, it goes into what I call 'rapid-fire texting', when you're sending messages back and forth instantly for a period of time... I've done this for hours with girls before, and it only happens when the attraction is through the roof.

    Start trying to base how long you wait to message her on how interested you think she is in the interaction and in you. This is not something that will come instantly but it's something that you will get better at over time. The more attraction and investment on her end, the less time you essentially need to wait, and the less you need to think about time intervals in general.
    How exactly does waiting longer between contact help with her not being attracted enough? If anything, it seems that it should be the opposite - you would want to have some delays when attraction is *high*, so that you keep her anxious and eager for your reply to arrive. Of course, speed texting sessions should still happen, but delays would be sprinkled in every now and then.

    If a girl I'm not attracted to doesn't message me for a long time, I'm probably going to forget about her. Don't see why the inverse would be different. Especially given that this girl is a 10 - by the time you message her again, she'll have talked with 10+ other guys, forcing you to re-distinguish yourself.

    But I'm all ears.

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    Default Re: She Replied! FB gaming a 10

    She blocked me and deleted me for whatever reason. My new 3 Days NC goes into effect now on all girls!! Until further notice or something else comes up.
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    Default Re: She Replied! FB gaming a 10

    Ok, maybe you can now share the conversation. Personally, I don't think it had anything to do about the response time that she deleted you.

    It is hard to evaluate what happened without seeing it.

    As long as you didn't do something stupid like:

    You: Your skin looks very smooth.
    Her: What?
    You: YO SKIN BITCH
    You: LOOKS SMOOTH

    Personally, when I text, I mix it up. I go with the flow based on her style of texting or the pace of the conversation. The best advice was from T-Mal - Don't be predictable

    When you get better at the text game, you will learn that response time has little to do with looking needy. It is what you say and how you say it.

    This is from Bobby Rio:
    How do I text a girl without looking needy?
    The key to playful persistence is detaching yourself from the outcome. If you are getting too hurt over not getting a response, time to look at your self-development. If you are generating your own fun, and you have a vibe about yourself and you think this is fun, you are going to come off as very non-needy and very attractive. Part of your inner game is “I got this hot girl’s number, what funny stuff can I come up with?” If you start planning out the next 5 texts to send her, then you are playing the game that will lead you down the wrong alley. Am I secretly expecting a response from this text? If you answer yes, don’t send it. “Just heard a nicki minaj song and remembered you saying you liked her…” BAD You hope that by referencing her interest, she’ll validate you with a response. “Saw a raccoon today…made me think of you.” Totally off-beat, random.

    Known PUA's like Tyler Durden text whenever they want due to an abundance mentality. They don't even care what the girl thinks. If one girl think it is needy, it is not his problem. It's her problem - her insecurity or frail ego. Because there are 10 other girls happy to receive his text.

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    Default Re: She Replied! FB gaming a 10

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    Elaborate. Very good content but kinda cryptic. You are saying I can message AS MUCH as I want as long as I feel like it as long as it is not too needy right? I was thinking the NC rule was a great idea to prevent me looking needy but you are saying that will never work and without a reply I should send more messages then? Not sure what this means exactly as far as application (10 messages No Reply before NC or 5 Messages before NC) but understand your theory behind it. So how many messages would you recommend before going NC on them? NC has been very powerful so far.
    How is it cryptic? I think it was pretty clear, but I'll go into more detail for you.

    You should NEVER send more messages if you don't get a reply.. This should be common knowledge to you by now. However, you not messaging until she messages back is not YOU going NC, it's HER. If you are waiting 3 days to message her back after receiving a message, than that would be you going NC. It would also be completely unnecessary. You should never really need to wait more than a day or so to message her back, and I would only advise that in a situation where her message displays disinterest.

    An example:

    YOU: So how was YOUR weekend little lady? Mine was awesome!

    HER: Fine I guess. Why?

    Here she is showing you that she is bored and very likely not interested at this point, but interested enough at least to message you back, so it's not totally farked yet. I would wait to reply to this message. At least 4 hours.

    YOU: So how was YOUR weekend little lady? Mine was awesome!

    HER: Great! I went scuba diving for the first time! Why was yours awesome??

    In this scenario she's pumping some huge IOI's your way.. I wouldn't worry about a time interval here. I would keep it interesting by not always messaging back immediately right off the bat - always keeping in mind the basic rules of texting/online messaging - But, the point is, when you're getting these sorts of IOI's, over-gaming can become an issue and you can fark it all up.

    This is what I mean about shifting your time intervals based on HER apparent level of interest at any given point in the interaction. You have to build on your ability to gauge whether or not you need to wait to message back, or if it's safe to message back immediately.. Do that by messaging handfuls of girls and practicing. Get on a dating site if you aren't already.

    Just keep playing it cool and don't let yourself worry about the outcome too much. Refer to what I said about not focusing too much on time intervals when she is showing interest in you and investment in the interaction.


    ...I'm not sure where you got the idea that you have to go NC at some point in every conversation. If you don't want to look needy, than stop being needy. A lot of girls would actually be turned off by a guy who takes all sorts of time to reply to messages, and will just stop talking.

    Girls like to have a solid, fun and interesting conversation with a guy. That is the whole point here.


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