So I've read lots of material, but most of it didn't really click into me.. so I found it kind of pointless. Ever since then I was hoping the magical book would just come to me.
Interestingly enough, it sort of did. The book is called: How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie. I've just picked up this book and it is extremely helpful. For those of you who are familiar to this title/author, you'll know what im talking about! And if you aren't, just take a few minutes to look it.
I've been doing tons of research to look for similar books like this but on other topics such as: how to get motivation/inspiration (basically i have no trouble setting goals for myself, I just get lazy at times and have a hard time executing them), how to get rid of anxiety (I have read a couple books on this but they weren't really helpful) and of course, some good books on how to come up with what to say (dont get mad at me here, I'll elaborate)- from openers to any conversation. Shout out to T-Mal for his very informational threads, if you've read his Bold Messaging thread you'll see how he is very creative, and never sends the usual "hey, how are you" messages.
I understand these concepts, as in I know what I want to say, just don't know how to put it in words. If any of you have feedback or any recommendations for me I'll definitely put time into it. Thanks a ton brothas!