Women manupulating in the workplace
I work at a bar with 99% female coworkers. One of the girls told me a glass broke and the manager told me I should clean it.
I went to ask him about it and he didn't know much about it, except that she mentioned it too. I figured she was trying to manipulate me to help, but since guests are sitting at a table with shit spilled everyone I felt the urge to get rid of it asap.
Upon finishing up, I noticed she has disappeared and was drinking samples of a new beer at the bar.
"I don't mind cleaning up your trash, but if you're going to sit at the bar and drink than you have time to do it yourself"
She started to come back at me, so I said quickly added "Alright, I'm done over there. You can do the rest then" and walked away.
I received at text from her later about how she has lost all respect for me because she's one of the hardest working girls there and she sees my true colours now. I really feel like it should've been me sending her that text lol, but It never crossed my mind.
I gave her no validation by responding. Was I out of line, or did I handle this with a proper alpha mind set? How should I proceed in these kinds of situations in the future, to prevent being used for another girl's laziness.
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