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Thread: She saw me with another chick

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    Default She saw me with another chick

    There is a Blondie at a gym which I go almost every day. This girl has a very strong bitch shield and rarely talks to guys. Apparently she got interested in me after a few months and started giving me some IOIs such as coming up to me and saying Hieee !

    I was thinking of starting gaming her but bummer she saw me when I was walking along a bay with another girl! She gave me a very angry look while she was running in the opposite direction

    I know the situation is very fooked up but I don't think I want to give up with her because seeing her bum every day when she is doing burpies I tell myself that she must be gamed no matter what it takes ;-)

    Now my question is that is there a way to approach her again from a different angle and somehow pretend that I don't have any romantic relationship with that girl? I cannot say she was my sister or cousin because I have no family in Australia at all!

    Thanks

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    Default Re: She saw me with another chick

    You're over thinking. This woman is not your girlfriend nor did you have a prior relationship with her. Who you hang out with is your business not hers. Just continue to game her and if she asks about the other woman, you could just say she's not your girlfriend and move on. It's as simple as that. If she gets pissed off, great! It saves you time and let's you know how clingy she'd be in a relationship.

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    Default Re: She saw me with another chick

    WHAT! you are actually golden dude. Don't make her think you are not involved, she needs to see you with other women. Just proceed talking to her as usual. Get a little more confident...if she asks you about her control your frame and tease her about being jealous.

    Don't bring the other girl up, don't explain yourself, don't show her any unwarranted attention. You are in a good spot, proceed with caution.

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    Default Re: She saw me with another chick

    Yep. Fuser is right. You just gained points by being seen with another girl (hopefully she was an attractive one at that). That angry face was a sh!t test guaranteed. Don't bring it up. If she brings it up say she's your "friend". That's it.

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    Default Re: She saw me with another chick

    Thanks guys, I will put her under a good game tomorrow ;-)

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    Default Re: She saw me with another chick

    You want her to think you're out with other girls, ESPECIALLY if you haven't even hooked up yet and gotten semi-serious. In the initial stages of building attraction with a girl, being seen with lots of other girls is HUGE, giving her the impression that you are can do the same thing,
    It's called pre-selection. It's awesome. Ever heard success breeds success? Having girls gets you more girls. It's like a huge shortcut to getting abundance.
    That's why it's awesome to have girls you are just friends with.

    Now if you've hooked up a few times & been on a couple dates & actually have feelings/really like each other including deep rapport, & she sees you with another girl somewhere date-like, or it looks like you guys are on a date.... That's a BIG NO NO.
    She'll feel like she's being played, & that you don't care about her, & that you're an ass hole. Its bad in like a 1000 ways. Basically she'll feel like you're being dishonest & fucking her over by attempting to fuck other girls when she really likes you.

    It's all about the vibe & knowing where you guys are together. If you can feel you guys are getting semi-serious, tell her you don't want that. Be honest with your intentions.
    Now if you really like her & you're getting serious, stop dating other girls. It doesn't work man, I've been there done that.


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