Ok, so here's the situation.
There's a hot bartender in my favourite bar, a solid HB black hair 9. Incredibly cute and also very funny and clever. I've been working on her for a while now, and I've already built comfort and (at least I hope) attraction in the few months.
I was managed to massive DHV on her, reat social proof, and some preselection. She has recognize me for a while, treat me differently than other customers - of course, she's a hired gun, so I could never be sure, but I'm kinda sure of it.
I've decided, that tonight is the night! Middle of the week, the pub is not completely full, I have enough time and possibility.
She told me her name some times ago, so I've been calling her in her name with a big smile for a while. I did it this time again, ask for the first round, nothing special. After a while, I went to the bar alone, and started a conversation wth her along with a whiskey. Has a great talk - tested her a few times if she carry on the conversation when I shut up - and she did it every time. I just wanted to run the 5 question game on her, when a staff member came to her, and started talking with her. I wasn't able to hold the conversation - yeah, AFC-alert, ask for two beers for my friends and left. But I decided that I tried to close her when I'm leaving, one way or another.
She wasn't at her position, so we have to waited for her. Standing at the bar with my friends, we decided to order an other, last round. Order vodka, sip it, and my friends left, as we had discussed it. And I finally pulled made the move:
ME: - We wasn't able to finish the game, let's grabe that one coffe per day together next time (we talked about how we both reduced our coffeine intake for one coffee a day). What's your number?
HB: (with a big smile): A-a, can't give out my number, bartender-policy. Facebook?
ME: (with a strange look) I can't give out my number for anybody neither. No facebook, phonenumber.
HB: Noooo... e-mail?
She writed down her e-mail address, we high fived, and I left, with big smile in both of our faces.
So... I wasn't able to hold the conversaton previously the night, that's AFC. But I'm kinda sure of what I've builded up before. She refuse to give me her phone number, that's bad also, but it was her, who offer her facebook instantly, and after I refuse that, her e-mail address. On the other hand, as far as I remember an other bartender gave her number to a dude a couple moths ago, so maybe it' not restricted. Maybe childish, but she wrote down her e-mail address with using a little hearth in it.
So my questions are: what do you think guys? Did I screwed this up? How should I carry this around? What should I write her?
I am completely clueless, not knowing what to do. Also, she is working almost every day and go to college also, so it is probably difficult to set up a date, buit she is incredibly hot and cute, so I must try.
Thanks in advence guys!