1. 1. Open, open with a situational opener, or with a female opinion opener, when you open, be natural and confident, no hesitancy, always think that you are high status, you donít have to smile when you open a girl. When you smile, donít put on an acceptance-seeking smile, donít put on an approval-seeking smile, and you donít have to keep smiling. But you donít have to be very serious, either. Be relaxed.
When you open, please be care of your body language. Your body language should convey that you are relaxed and you are confident. Donít lean in, learn back.
When you talk with a girl, initially you may need to speak more than her, but as she starts to contribute to the conversation, let her talk more, especially let her talk more about herself. When she mentions something, explore what she mentions to find her good points therefore you can become to genuinely like her.
Always believe that you are high status, use your body language and your non-verbal language to demonstrate your confidence, your charm, it is OK that you demonstrate your value verbally, but donít try to impress her. If the girl is beautiful, you can imagine that many guys before you have tried to impress her, impressing her will lower your value in her eyes, not increase your value.
It is OK that she is attracted to you first or youíre attracted to her first because you find her good points.
When you talk with her, donít be afraid of silence, donít feel uneasy when there is silence. There is a competition when there is silence. Let her break the silence.
You can test her. You can also accuse her, you can satirize her, but do it in a playful way, donít let her think that you are serious.
You can also exaggeration to create a joyful atmosphere.
You can also use role-playing.
Comfort: You try to know more about each other. You kino her, and do kino escalation. When you touch her, let the touch be natural.