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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    You have nothing to lose, add her on Facebook..

    Did you ever talk to her, or do have any mutual friends on Facebook?

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    Quote Originally Posted by twentynine View Post
    You have nothing to lose, add her on Facebook..

    Did you ever talk to her, or do have any mutual friends on Facebook?
    Yes we had mutual friend but she has deleted her facebook. I never got to talk to her over 30 seconds at a time. Our work breaks and time starting and getting off work was different.

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    I'd just do the flag her down thing if you see her everyday and think what if. Since you don't interact much you don't really have anything to lose so I'd go for it and be direct. I'd just be honest and say "Hey, I've noticed you for awhile now (possibly explain the circumstances of where I work so it doesn't sound creepy) and I think your really pretty (or compliment a specific feature) and I just told myself I have to take a shot and come talk to you, my names Trickstar, yours is..." then let the conversation roll from there and DEFINATELY number close here because if you flag her down again it would be extremely awkward.

    I know the nervous/creeper feeling you'll get, which is why this strategy is out of my norm, but I'd talk myself into "if anything goes wrong, we never interact anyway so it won't hurt my social status" and I'd just have something in me that builds up saying what if that would force me to do that. Also this way is one shot take or leave instead of having you build up over several interactions, since any interaction period is scarce. Go for it dude. Don't let the what if feeling get you. Take the shot before it eats you.

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    Read the entire thread, Trickstar.


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