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    Default Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    There is a girl at work that flirts with me every time she passes by in her car. The problem is I am a couple hundred yards from where she works and only see her in her car. We work at a factory with about 300 employees and can't really justify going over to her department without risky getting her or me in trouble.(We don't have lunch at the same time either) Should I try to open her on Facebook? Try to talk to her in the parking lot? Any ideas on how to approach her?

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    Forgot to mention she lives in another town than me so I only see her at work.

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    I would approach her in the parking lot if that's where you see her. If she is giving you hard eye contact/smiling that's a clear "come talk to me". So walk up and talk to her. Doing anything else like go to her department or adding her on facebook might come off as weird.

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    Flag her down next time.
    Wave at her & motion for her to come over to you.

    Then flirt!!
    Tell her you heard she wanted your autograph, or that she wanted to take you to lunch... then wink & laugh.

    Be playful & fun for those couple moments.
    Tell her that instead of having to drive by all the time, you'd be ok swapping digits with her.

    Just don't make a big deal over the number thing & it shouldn't be a big deal at all.



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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    What T-Mal said.

    Be very careful at work. Never sexually escalate there and don't be persistent. If she says no, drop it. Just flirt and have fun! You won't work there forever.

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    Exactly what other posters said.
    Go very direct and talk to her, then go indirect & be playful & fun! If you can make a girl have fun at work, she'll love you! Work sucks.
    Also, mikus makes some very good points. Don't sexually escalate at work.
    I disagree about being persistant. Once you get to really know her, be as persistant as you want, as long as you're having fun and making her laugh, she'll love your persistence.

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    Thanks Gentlemen for the help. I will try to approach her today.

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    Didn't get a chance to talk to her. I think she must have quit or got fired. If so should I try to contact her on facebook?

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    I think I will message her on Facebook. Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Help with 20 year old HB8.5 at work

    Found out she got terminated at work. Never got to make a move.


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