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    nitsuj is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Advice on beginning

    im new, i just broke up with my gf of 5 years almost 6 years, we are still communicating, i want to get her back but after reading stuff here i think i dont want to get her back, but rather i am afraid to be alone. I could never know the answer if she was the one or im just afraid if i dont test out other girls or dating. I watch alot of funny pickup stuff on youtube, i want to try it out too, seems fun and would help me alot on knowing if she is the one or not or im just being a beta b**** lol just found out that today by reading the forums. So can you pro's help me out on how to start?

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    Default Re: Advice on beginning

    All i know is have a clear goal.and shoot for it.the rest of the pros could help you out.am working on my game overall.

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    nitsuj is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Advice on beginning

    any resource to help get me started on working on my game?

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    Default Re: Advice on beginning

    Find someone in your city who can help you out with your game. You'll most likely have to pay for this but I was fortunate enough to know a friend. Reading material on whatever you're looking for is only going to get you so far and it will really only damper your progress and clog your brain with useless(at this time), more advanced material. If you can stomach him, RSDTyler has a lot of interesting stuff, and while I don't take it all seriously, it's nonetheless good to watch and at the very least watch him be a complete ass

    My biggest piece of advice is to get out there and minimize your approach anxiety(you can never fully remove it). Talk to anyone and everyone; the old lady at the bus stop; the model walking down the street. Who cares if you get blown out immediately or are only able to say hi, you're getting out of your comfort zone.

    I don't recommend reading any "PUA-oriented" books as it is way too much information to take in(for me, at least), just work on being your natural self. At the same time become a better man. Be more eccentric and spontaneous. If you're still in the cuddly, lovey relationship mode you will have no luck. Women want a man who is confident and can cater to their needs. While their needs may be a one night stand or even an LTR, you still need to be that confident man they're looking for.

    Enough rambling. I hope this helped and I sent you a PM so we can chat.

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    Default Re: Advice on beginning

    Yeah best to start where there's plenty of fresh talent...St. Paddy's Parade. Went last year and did about 15 approaches Day and Night. However this year will be more due to having more confidence and bringing in my wing.

    Saw so many HB's last Parade couldn't even handle them all. It is just blocks and blocks infested with HB's. Literally 4 Sets (the Bars open in the morning) within probably 10 minutes of each other in a Bar spot at about noon. The bars next to the Parade are just packed with chicks. So yes that will be my first time sarging this year. But I put on 15lbs of muscle since then, got a tatt, and a wing so it will be off the chain.

    Getting a hotel to prevent drunk driving then hitting the Bars and Clubs that night which are usually pretty packed. Last Paddy's Day my day game went to hell but that night I was on fire. My previous state helped. The thing is Day Game is hard so this year focusing on hitting it out of the park. This is why I say Holiday Events for picking up chicks are gold mines. Aside from that listen to Mystery Method and Tyler RSD. A lot you won't understand at first but I get it all now. This is why I love sarging target rich locals but usually super suck online or doing random one off Gym approaches cuz I got no state going in. Just throw yourself out there. When you see an HB come up with an opener and that's it. I never worry what to say after only my opener. After the delivery I might have a pre-frame built in (I am getting more advanced) to combat an ice shield or sh!t test. But usually I just work on my delivery and the rest just plays out differently each time depending on the interaction.
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    nitsuj is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Advice on beginning

    I see alot of videos about picking up, but i dont see alot of videos of rejection, how to handle being rejected and moving on to the next set without feeling or looking like a beta.


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