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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    When I say "You like me." to a girl, the girl replies, "You think too much." How can I reply?

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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    You know, she may have a point. But it's more that you're OVER-thinking everything.

    Ever think about that?


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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack100 View Post
    I am thinking that we can accept it and exaggerate it to a ridiculous level. For example, when she says, "I don't think that you are handsome." I can act as if a sword penetrated into my stomach and say, "Oh, I'm seriously wounded. please call an ambulance for me, now!"

    What do you think of it?
    That actually means she got to you,I wouldn't use that line.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack100 View Post
    When I say "You like me." to a girl, the girl replies, "You think too much." How can I reply?
    Dude,you can't predict everything a girl will say,don't try so hard,if you want to start with canned material I suggest you to look at Mystery Method,almost everyone starts there.I'm saying that not to sound like a prick,I just remember myself doing the same thing,the more you'll try to learn the more difficult it will become.

    Also,a reply to this is easy,"I don't think too much,I know too much",but you gotta get close to her and kiss her after you said that.If you aren't ready to close or there isn't enough kino don't use that line this will just lead to a very awkward situation,even if she does like you,what will you do about it ?Do you have the balls to kiss her or more ?Fark her ?

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    Cocky & funny is first to be cocky, when you are being cocky, you think that you are high status, your words imply that you are high status, but don't attack or insult the girl you are talking to, your words don't reflect that you are hostile towards her, as long as she doesn't feel hostility from you, she may tease you, but she won't genuinely attack you or humiliate you. You also have to make the words to be funny, otherwise she may think that you are a jerk. You may often need to utilize exaggeration when you are being cocky & funny.

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    I personally think that everybody's questions and problems can be solved with the simple but incredible power of opening up a book. Seriously, reading and teaching yourself is one of the greatest things you can do in pickup.

    Oh, what's that? You don't know where to start? Here, I got two great ones for ya. Check out Vin DiCarlo's Cocky Commedy and High Status Humor by Zach Browman. Both are amazing with teaching the kind of cocky-funny humor that every successful pua should be great with.
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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack100 View Post
    Cocky & funny is first to be cocky, when you are being cocky, you think that you are high status, your words imply that you are high status, but don't attack or insult the girl you are talking to, your words don't reflect that you are hostile towards her, as long as she doesn't feel hostility from you, she may tease you, but she won't genuinely attack you or humiliate you. You also have to make the words to be funny, otherwise she may think that you are a jerk. You may often need to utilize exaggeration when you are being cocky & funny.
    Dude... Dude. Listen. Guys who actually make cocky/funny work don't think about ANY of this stuff. It doesn't work if you are thinking about all this crap. Being cocky and funny is a very relaxed and positive way of behaving, that's part of the draw. It also requires a very high level of confidence. You're thinking too much into this for anything even remotely cocky/funny to work for you.

    In your case, I suggest you look more into your Inner Game. Work on building your own confidence and realizing who you are. The way you behave around women and your "pickup techniques" etc, need to be based on those things. Otherwise you're just going to come off as a fake, and the whole cocky/funny attitude will likely just backfire.

    Take a step back, relax, and watch some RSD videos, David DeAngelo etc. Then come back and if you still think the whole cocky/funny thing is congruent to you, than we can talk more about it.

    Cocky/Funny works for me when I'm in that frame, and when I'm feeling it. Not when I'm thinking about how to be cocky and funny. Does that make sense?

    Good luck.

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    You have to be cocky and funny at the same time. If you want to say something cocky, and you don't feel it is funny, don't say it.

    You don't have to be cocky and funny all the time.

    When you say something humorous, people can't help laugh. You don't laugh, you should keep a straight face, you don't look at their eyes. If you laugh or look at their eyes, you are seeking validation from them and it will lower your value.

    When you enter a venue,say, a cafe, you need people to feel that you are confident. One way to show that you are confident, you think that you are the owner of that venue and you try to take as much space as possible.

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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack100 View Post
    When you say something humorous, people can't help laugh. You don't laugh, you should keep a straight face, you don't look at their eyes. If you laugh or look at their eyes, you are seeking validation from them and it will lower your value.
    Listen to two nine on this one. I've been naturally cocky/funny with all the women I date and they absolutely love it. BUT I don't try to be. I just go with the flow and it comes naturally, like two nine stated, because I'm extremely confident around them. If you TRY to be cocky/funny it doesn't come off as being natural.

    Straight face? No eye contact? I think that's garbage and I don't know where you heard that. Sometimes I keep a straight face, but most of the time I give a sly smile with a "I know I'm being cocky, but I AM the shit" look. I also give strong eye contact when I do this because I give strong eye contact to every woman I talk to when I'm talking to her.

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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    Eye contact & smiling are crucial.
    That displays confidence & a relaxed persona.

    If you can't make eye contact, you're gonna come across as being timid & unsure of yourself. So making "cocky" statements will just make you look like a douchebag.


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    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Eye contact & smiling are crucial.
    That displays confidence & a relaxed persona.

    If you can't make eye contact, you're gonna come across as being timid & unsure of yourself. So making "cocky" statements will just make you look like a douchebag.
    I mean the moment you just said something laughable. You keep a straight face, and you don't look at them, the message it conveys is that you are not expecting they to laugh. You don't care how they will respond to what you just said.


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