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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    I think I get what you're implying, but I still personally laugh & look them in the eyes.

    I'll also touch them... whether it's playfully smacking them on the arm or leg, or giving them a little elbow nudge or light push away.

    Laughter relaxes people & lowers defenses.
    Eye contact & touching will draw someone in closer & make them more curious about you.

    It's really more about being "playful" & less about "cocky".



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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack100 View Post
    I mean the moment you just said something laughable. You keep a straight face, and you don't look at them, the message it conveys is that you are not expecting they to laugh. You don't care how they will respond to what you just said.
    I still don't agree with this at all, but I'm not going to repeat myself.

    I've seen allot of your posts on here and it seems to me like your reading every book available. I wouldn't do that. You are putting so much information in your head about what you're "supposed to do" and "how you're supposed to act". It's over analyzing. That won't help you.

    Honestly, getting women is not as hard or complicated as these books make it appear.

    Do yourself a favor and forget all that stuff, then buy The manual: what women want and how to give it to them. This is the best book I have read and it's really straightforward. I'm going to write a review of it on here, but I read it over a year ago, so I need to re-read it to give a good review. Pair this book with David X's "Be relentless" and you have the holy grail of direct game. I personally won't ever read anything else besides these two (except the way of the superior man, but that book isn't about getting women, it's more about inner game and keeping a women).

    I went down the same road as you already. I've always been decent with women then I read this book. I saw my game improve immensely then I had a couple minor setbacks and I started to read everything. This set me back until I said "screw this stuff" and went back to being me. This book will help you be the best version of you.

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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    Yes, I have been reading all materials available after a member on this forum suggested me.

    "However to say, that there is one PUA method that works on all women is BS. Like a martial art, you select a style/system or whatever that best matches you. Nowadays, people just cross-train, expand their minds and take the best of everything."

    Now I am reading the book The manual: what women want and how to give it to them. It will take me some days to finish this book. It seems a good book, but part of what it teaches seems to contradict other methods like Mystery Method, as I was told, from many sources, that Mystery Method, generally speaking, is the most effective method so far.


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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    Yes they will contradict, they come from completely different sources. There isn't necessarily a right and wrong way here. Take what you can from each, whatever is relevant to you and your personality.. And what works.

    I think the Mystery Method is a good guideline and reference for how girls are wired in general. I would suggest not trying to follow it to a tee. It's mostly geared towards guys that have no clue what they are doing, and want to get the ball rolling and gain some knowledge about women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    I still don't agree with this at all, but I'm not going to repeat myself.

    I've seen allot of your posts on here and it seems to me like your reading every book available. I wouldn't do that. You are putting so much information in your head about what you're "supposed to do" and "how you're supposed to act". It's over analyzing. That won't help you.

    Honestly, getting women is not as hard or complicated as these books make it appear.

    Do yourself a favor and forget all that stuff, then buy The manual: what women want and how to give it to them. This is the best book I have read and it's really straightforward. I'm going to write a review of it on here, but I read it over a year ago, so I need to re-read it to give a good review. Pair this book with David X's "Be relentless" and you have the holy grail of direct game. I personally won't ever read anything else besides these two (except the way of the superior man, but that book isn't about getting women, it's more about inner game and keeping a women).

    I went down the same road as you already. I've always been decent with women then I read this book. I saw my game improve immensely then I had a couple minor setbacks and I started to read everything. This set me back until I said "screw this stuff" and went back to being me. This book will help you be the best version of you.
    What do you say to a woman when you approach her?

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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    First off Cocky & Funny works. Listen to some of Tyler RSD and you will hear he does Cocky & Funny big time. Such as the claw, picking up girls, making out with random chicks, making chicks grab him and making a joke like it was their idea and him laughing about it, etc. That's the best example I can give you. Tyler gave an example that Julien RSD barks at girls and calls them dogs in his opener and then makes it an inside joke between him and the target. But Tyler even said his stuff or Julien's stuff is not foolproof or ironclad so he essentially says what they may do specifically is not a cookie cutter approach but more of a don't try this at home kids kind of take away.

    In the end you have to find your niche of Cocky & Funny. Cocky & Funny is for advanced PUA's who have fundamental knowledge and use it to challenge themselves. I will be using it this year as last year it was meat and potatoes kind of pick up. I tried Cocky Funny once on a 10 and it went south pretty quick. I said I like a good challenge to pull her strings and it pinged her to the grave. She pinged so bad she openly admitted lying saying here's my challenge "I have a fiancÚ" which was total BS because she was chomping at the bit. Then when I got all seriously cocky and said I am trying to be an A-hole she said "why?" further extending it and extending it till I lost frame control and lost it since she ended up getting offended me saying I was sick of being a nice guy. Came off too try hard I guess. So you gotta be able to really bring it. I wasn't funny enough in my ploy and mostly just cocky which without funny just comes off arrogant. So I guess you could say had I added some humor (like I am an A-hole in rehab) maybe she would have dropped the iceshield. Find your niche all I can say as I will be searching for mine this year.
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    Default Re: cocky & funny

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack100 View Post
    What do you say to a woman when you approach her?
    I want to make a few things clear. I see you read the book and liked it. That's good. However; I have not used his super direct approach. He basically states that you should be VERY direct, which I like, and his idea of direct is WAY MORE direct than anything I have read.

    He states that you should compliment the women then state that you're interested. To do this properly you need HUGE BALLS. I have been working on my inner game to get to the point that I can be THAT direct on a cold approach, but I haven't gotten there yet.

    What I have used in the book is how to show a women you care, by using chivalry. Also being charming, which by his definition, is telling them how THEY make you feel, and giving allot of compliments. I used to go with the idea that giving a beautiful girl a compliment was a no-no. Well that's just not true. They haven't heard it all and they like to feel wanted/beautiful. Make them feel good when they are around you by giving them compliments! It's that easy!

    Most of the women I date I meet through mutual friends, at school, or the bar. At the bar I will start a conversation with a girl and when she invests in the conversation I tell her what I like about her. I don't go super direct right off the bat. Every girl is different so you will like different things about different women. The more unique the compliment the better. Example: "You know what I really like about you (pause) I really like your personality. You're such a bubbly, happy-go lucky, glass half full kind of girl. I find that very attractive."

    Here are a few examples I told a girl that I dated for a little bit. This was the first time she found out I was interested, although I had already known her and built rapport. "You're the most beautiful thing I've ever seen" "You have the smallest, most beautiful hands I've ever seen" "Your aura shines extremely bright, you have this energy that I've never seen before. Every time I see you I can't stop from smiling" I literally swept her off her feet. This girl was extremely beautiful and she told me a guy has never talked to her in that way. You know you're doing it right when she gets that glazed over, uncontrollably attracted look (All you guys who have experienced that know what I'm talking about). DO NOT memorize these lines though. This is just an example. You should compliment a women on HER unique characteristics.

    If you're worried about what to say, you aren't ready. You shouldn't be worried, you should be genuine and honest. It's not about lines, it's about showing genuine interest in the girl.

    I like to make women feel good about themselves, even women that are just my friends. I tell them how good they look when they dress up "Damn Katie! You look amazing! You're a heart breaker tonight!" "Oh no! You're showing off the twins! (Look at her boobs) Guys better bring their A-game!" If it's a girl I'm dating or just my friend, when I see them I'll hug them, pull back then grab their hand and twirl them around "You look STUNNING...as usual." Then if they are showing off the twins or wearing yoga pants I'll comment on how nice their boobs or butt looks in that shirt/pants. Women absolutely love this stuff! It makes them feel good and it makes ME feel good because I just made their day THAT much better.


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