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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    "i know the basic convo topics we should generally avoid, like religion, politics and other boring shit but is there more i should be vigilant for"
    This had a bit more to do with the way you challenged her framing yourself as the prize.the content was not bad but if you are netting iois you should hold off that.not to say dont challenge them but then here its got her chasing you just to have you.it may sound a bit tricky to grasp.but how about focusing more on escalation as am sure you will.keep challenging girls but be sure how you frame it.for example if you are teasing that it would be hard to get you in bed which is great,dont put it as if it would never happen.that way if it happens fast attraction doesnt spiral downhill.had to learn that from experience teasing girls.

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    LOL!!
    I must admit, I'm always entertained.
    ..Well true rocker fan i guess,

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Woah man...
    When i talk many people ask questions..both sexes
    lmfao yeah but we ask questions to find out what your talking about bro

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    yeah ok I think I get it now. I did give her a shit load of ioi now that I think about it. When we where sexting I did tell her I really wanted to fark her. That was probably where I farked up. So I'm going to cool it with iois for now then get her to start chasing me again. I think I'm going to hold back on texting her too.

    And i think i get wat mean when you say not to make it seem like it will never happen. I actually texted her last night saying that i knew it is going to happen eventually. As for the escalation like i said its tough because i see her at work only. How would you guys go about escalating low key at work?

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    You're not being led on, she's just shit testing you because she thinks its fun.
    Girls like this are lame, and sluts. Don't get attached.

    Basically just run lots of disqualifiers on her, until she can't handle it anymore.
    I'd be more direct and ballsy, because she seems pretty slutty.

    "You're ass is so sexy, it's too bad you're a tease, or i'd totally give you the best night of your life."

    "You know, I've been with my fair share of (whatever hair color she is) and they were always terrible in bed. It's too bad your not a (whatever hair color) or i'd totally be turned on right now."

    Idk, just create your own, and be cocky/funny with her, and you'll bag her.

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Kyle...you are the KING of dis-qualifiers my friend!

    Those both were ballsy and would definitely work on this girl. It doesn't have to be that ballsy if you don't think the girl could handle it. I was seeing this girl with the smallest, cutest hands I've ever seen. I have small hands myself and when I was holding hers I told her that she had the most beautiful hands I've ever seen and that most girls I date have bigger hands than I do. I would then tell her stuff like "If ONLY your hands were bigger, we would have something". She actually bought it. Something so ridiculous yet so effective!

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl3 View Post
    You're not being led on, she's just shit testing you because she thinks its fun.
    Girls like this are lame, and sluts. Don't get attached.

    Basically just run lots of disqualifiers on her, until she can't handle it anymore.
    I'd be more direct and ballsy, because she seems pretty slutty.

    "You're ass is so sexy, it's too bad you're a tease, or i'd totally give you the best night of your life."

    "You know, I've been with my fair share of (whatever hair color she is) and they were always terrible in bed. It's too bad your not a (whatever hair color) or i'd totally be turned on right now."

    Idk, just create your own, and be cocky/funny with her, and you'll bag her.
    Both of those DQ's went straight into my man book

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Lol those are some epic Dq's man thanks alot! lol and i have been VERY direct with her no beating around the bush wit this chick but now my problem is trying to see her outside of work anyone have an idea how i can get her to commit to seeing me outside work?

    also she came in last night with a guy, lol i think she might have been trying to make me jealous but i couldn't careless. now that i think about it i should have tried to befriend this guy, oh well next time im in that situation ill know what to do.

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Asking questions may not be bad at all.either ways may hold off and try to talk to other girls

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Asking questions may not be bad at all.either ways may hold off and try to talk to other girls
    I don't really understand this. Can you please elaborate?

    I know I should talk to other girls and I do, i flirt with every attractive female i encounter at work.


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