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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    I had this problem with a co-worker i liked.
    Just try to extend the interaction after work.

    "Hey (her name) what kind of trouble are you up to later? (Whatever, usually nothing)
    Let's hangout. (Than make up a logical reason. Let's say a party.) There's a huge party later, I want you to come. (Or say, I'd really like to get to know the real (her name) some more, because I really like the connection we have.) she should say maybe, or yeah.

    Than when you get outta work text her. If she tries to flake over text later that night do this...
    (This is really high risk/reward, DO NOT do this unless you and the girl are really comfortable with each other and stuff. You don't want her to think you're a stalker.)

    "Hey, you're seriously rolling with me to this party, so get ready I'm coming over right meow."
    (She says no, or gives some excuse over text)
    Than literally drive to her place. When you get there text her this.

    "I'm literally outside your apartment, I just read your text; let me inside to charge my phone for a few minutes if you're going to be a brat & not want to tag along. It's freezing out here."


    She should let you in, start laughing, than say your plans fell through and you'd rather stay and hangout with her if she brings it up. She probably won't.
    Than hook-up.

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Hey guys i think i farked this up. so everything was going good i hadnt started a text convo sense sunday. she actually hit me up on both monday and tuesday. anyways i was sexting her again a few hours ago and she totally cuts it off like the tease she is telling me good night so i ask her to at least leave me to keep me satisfied for now (meaning a pic). she tells me she doesn't trust me and says i'd show people at work. i jokingly said that the only person i'd show is my best friend, that also works there and that i wouldnt even show him if she asks me not too. sufficient to say she got pissed and basically shut me out.

    ok sooo what do you think? is this salvageable? or do you guys think i completely ruined my chance at farking her?

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Quote Originally Posted by ThtNikkaGP View Post
    I don't really understand this. Can you please elaborate?

    I know I should talk to other girls and I do, i flirt with every attractive female i encounter at work.
    Hmm..
    Depends on whats go on currently..etc

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    lol ok so where to start....well all is pretty much forgiven with the whole pic situation. when i saw her firday i didnt say anything to her when i walked in work (mostly cause i was 10 mins late to work and was in a rush). later that night at work she asked me why i was being weird, why i wasn't saying anything to her. i told her i was not acting weird i came in to work late so i couldnt stop to say anything.

    she asked me if i was going to say sry to her and i did, but only for the way i told her my friend knows where messing around, not for saying i'd show him pics because i was only joking when i said that. after that i continued to game her normally. then yesterday i got her to bring me lunch and promised id return the favor today.

    honestly i feel like shes even more in to me now. friday she was asking alot of personal questions about me, when my birthday was (turns out we have a birthday on the same day lol), basically trying to get to know me better.

    idk im pretty sure all is forgiven and this girl is the one starting to chase me now XD cant be sure though i work with her again today so ill find out for sure.

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Be looking to invite her to place.may take things forward from there.Peace

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Pretty much any girl who talks about sex like this or sends you photos is easy game.

    Don't be hesitant - if you want her be aggressive and persistant. Less talk, more action.

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    she does talk about sex alot to me and she hasnt sent me a photo, lol that of course is my fault thou. so just a quick update on my progress now. i was feeling sick yesterday, had a bad cough and a throbbing headache...still went to work lol.

    while she was eating lunch in the breakroom i went in there and we talked for a bit, lol going back and forth with negs. this would have been the perfect time for me to escalate...we're alone in the breakroom. but like i said i was sick yesterday and i figured she wouldnt want to make out with me a get sick too, farking AFC excuse man -_-....

    and then im texting her again last night and she tells me she wanted to kiss me when we were alone there...i farkin knew it! lesson learned again next time ill be prepared!

    btw any1 know any really good books to get sex tips from, i mean things like best postions, lasting longer, shit like that? i've only farked one other girl and im pretty nervous about sleeping with this chick, shes not the type that likes the sensual sex, she likes rough and fast paced. lmfaoo i know in the end ill probably last only 5 mins but i want it to be the best 5 mins she ever had, so any advice would be good.

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Here's a sneaky little trick you can use to last longer with girls in bed.

    Seriously, if you know you're about to fuck her that day, masturbate in the morning, and bare minimum like 2 hours before you think you'll hook up. Than go to the store and buy Ultra-ribbed condoms. They're thicker, and ribbed so she'll like it too. She'll think you're bigger.

    Do both of these and You'll last for fucking ever, which may not be the most awesome thing for you, but she'll think you're a sex god.

    And listen, don't hook-up with a girl at work. It's bad, I don't even do it. The only exception is if you 2 are dating already, or SUPER CLOSE, which you're not.

    Why would you want your first kiss with her to be in a break room? that's retarted anyways.

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl3 View Post
    Here's a sneaky little trick you can use to last longer with girls in bed.

    Seriously, if you know you're about to fark her that day, masturbate in the morning, and bare minimum like 2 hours before you think you'll hook up. Than go to the store and buy Ultra-ribbed condoms. They're thicker, and ribbed so she'll like it too. She'll think you're bigger.

    Do both of these and You'll last for farking ever, which may not be the most awesome thing for you, but she'll think you're a sex god.
    lmao awesome man thanks for the tips, lol sex god sounds like a good title, i think ill take it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl3 View Post
    And listen, don't hook-up with a girl at work. It's bad, I don't even do it. The only exception is if you 2 are dating already, or SUPER CLOSE, which you're not.

    Why would you want your first kiss with her to be in a break room? that's retarted anyways.
    lmfao bro you stole the words out my head! i keep telling her AND myself, that we have to keep business and pleasure separate but its hard a.f man.

    as for the k-close, being at work is wats keeping me from escalating farther. im talking to her now trying to get her to see me outside of work but she always has an excuse

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    Default Re: Am i being lead on?

    Extend interaction RIGHT after work.
    Come up with an excuse to see her.
    "We're going to a party together and I'm picking you up so get ready I'm on my way"
    "I need to show you this awesome song, I'm coming over."

    Come up with your own excuse & tell her you're coming over after work to show her. If she gives you an excuse, tell her, look, I HAVE to show you this/etc. I'm coming over for like 10mins than going to (whatever). Should I come over right after work or at (insert time).

    Be pushy, but not creepy stalkerish. Idk how to explain it. Don't invite her out if she's not giving you IOI's. Wait until she's invested or hooked & then do it. I made that mistake with a girl at work & it hurt me a little bit.


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