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    Default Slept over but nothing happened... confused

    Hey guys,

    I need your help translating what this all means because it confused the hell out of me...

    I met a girl at a little college dorm get together a week ago. No special anything happened. Then last night a couple friends and I went out to a bar and were hanging out, and she happened to be there (she was mutual friends of the girls we came with). We bumped into each other a couple times throughout the night. She came with a few friends, one in particular kept talking to my friend.

    Before we left we invited those two to my apartment to hang, but they said they wanted to stay. We ended up leaving much later than expected which was exactly when they were leaving as well.

    Then they were about to leave (my target, girl who was talking to my friend, and another friend of theirs), before the other friend came out of their car, ran over to me and my friend, and told us that her two friends wanted to hangout at my apartment.

    So those two ended up meeting us at my apartment. One of my friends crashed on the couch, so as not to disturb him, us 4 went to chill in the bedroom. After a few drinking games things started to get weird...

    My girl kept getting aggressive and poking me and being very overbearing like... like trying to be the alpha male, but came off as obnoxious. We play wrestled a little too... so lots of kino. My friends girl was being fun and nice though. Then we all ended up crashing in my bed, kinda cuddling. My friend claimed to have messed around with his girl a little, while me and my girl literally spooned (a little distance in between, which I purposely made because honestly, I wasn't feeling it). I would've made a move to kiss her too or something but it felt like she was purposely turning around.

    In the morning they leave while I'm sleeping and wake up not long after as they were pretty noisy.

    I'm thinking there's a chance she may have wanted my friend and that's why she was distant towards me. Idk, I thought it was a given though that she'd be coming over for me since my friend was talking to her friend for A LOT of the night. We were very feely though when "wrestling" like she purposely tried to have me feel her up, but she commented when I tried to overtly do it instead of incidental... I got my targets number from the other friend that ran over (when leaving the bar), but I never texted or anything.

    Basically, I'm just curious as to where I stand, how I should continue from here, and based on this little information, what I could've done better.

    Really appreciate the help as always guys. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Slept over but nothing happened... confused

    Get interest building phase handled more.she only complained because you were overt.next time present a more charged content and isolate once you net iois.Peace.

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    Default Re: Slept over but nothing happened... confused

    Appreciate the pointers. Could you explain a little more in depth on interest building, and what you mean by more charged content? Completely understand not isolating was a bad idea...

    Also, where do you think I stand now, and what's a good way to move forward, if it does sound like I still have a shot to close?

    Is texting a good idea (based on how I got her number)?

    Thanks again

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Slept over but nothing happened... confused

    Best to move on and explore how to create attraction more.i think she wasnt fixated on you initially,but then your skills got you with her in bed.best to hone those a bit more.

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    Default Re: Slept over but nothing happened... confused

    Girls love cock. And girl suck the cocks of guys who lead.

    When you don't lead, the girl won't even know you're interested in her, so the idea won't cross her mind. For example, if it's just the 4 of you in bed next time, here's a suggestion. I tried it once when there were 4 of us in bed watching a movie and I got a lay:

    -sit beside her on the bed
    -arrange the blankets around so that way her boobs are hidden from everyone else. do it casually, as if you're getting more confortable.
    -during the movie, innocently place your hand on her shoulder, as if you're feeling comfy with a friend
    -through the movie, slowly move your hand inside her shirt at the shoulder. as you hang out, move it more and more slowly down her shirt
    -don't stop unless you get resistance. keep going til you're fondling her boobs. by that point, she knows you want to fark her. if she hasn't objected, it's only a matter of time
    -if you get resistance, stop. at least she knows you like her. Later, feel her out and see if she's just nervous or doesn't see you as anything more than a friend

    The point is that girls love cock, but don't know guys want to give it to them. If you make a move, it'll move things foreword


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