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    Default male-to-female interest

    This is my sticking point. According to Juggler method, a girl has to earn our interest. We need to get a girl to make an effort, say, we get her to contribute a lot to the conversation, we get her to talk a lot about her, so we can show our interest in her to reward her effort.
    Can we say that we like a girl's voice? Maybe her voice is quite unique. Or can we say that we like her because of her job? You know, voice and job are not something as a result of her effort, but can they become the legitimate reasons for us to like her?

    In mystery method, even a girl's nationality can become a reason to show interest in her.

    PUA: What nationality are you?
    Girl: German.
    PUA:I love German. I have this girl which I had a crush on in high school and she's a German. I can't even talk to you now.

    Another example is "nurse."
    PUA: What do you want to be when you grow up? Don't say princess. If you could be anyone with no chance of failure what would you wanna be?
    Girl: nurse
    PUA: A nurse? NO FUCKING way! I've dated nurse. I love that. I can't even talk to you now.

    Obviously, speaking out "German" or "nurse" doesn't require much effort, but it becomes a reason for us to show interest in her.

    or should we convey our interest in her for no reason, we just say, " thereís something about you Iím just so drawn to itís ridiculous. You know, I wasnít given an instructional manual on how to be human, I just take things one day at a time, and Iím fucking drawn to you. And I look away because I donít want to spook you out, and the next thing you know, I canít help but look back to you. "

    How do you show your interest in a girl?

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    Default Re: male-to-female interest

    You show you're interest either directly or indirectly.
    A.) directly- you straight up tell her in a conversation that you think she's sexy as hell and wonder if she has a personality to go with it, because you're very picky with girls. You're the selector, and she's the selectee. Girls know this deep down, & it's very attractive when guys have balls and are honest with there intentions upfront. Than you run lots of disqualifiers, & make her work really hard to win your approval. Most importantly, just be cocky/funny and make her laugh.
    This takes a different breed of guy to pull off, so don't try it if you're a beginner. It's definitely more high risk/high reward.
    Example of a direct line.
    "Hey I just noticed you over there and thought were cute as fuck so I wanted to come say hi, I'm Kyle. Now tell me, what's it going to take to love you." -credits to suave kino on that last part of that.

    Indirectly- You're more subtle, & you build attraction and portray interest over a longer period of time. Preferably a work environment, class, or somewhere where you will see this chick a lot. You portray your interest/build attraction through Kino-ing her playfully, DHV stories, push pull routines, qualifiers, disqualifiers, & deep rapport building conversations.
    This seems more complex, because it kind of is in a way. It's longer, & more drawn out than direct game, but it's also WAY easier and safer. Once you get really good at PUA stuff, you'll know when she's definitely attracted and will be able to feel when you should pull the trigger.

    Indirect lines--
    On approaches- "hey could you give me the time my phones dead."
    Her- 7:09pm
    Me- ahh thanks, (than stack whatever small talk you want or routine)
    (It's hard to give examples of indirect because it's more small talk, & a situational thing like In a classroom environment that is over a long period of time.)

    Use a mix of both, & most importantly, know when you need to use which style.

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    Default Re: male-to-female interest

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyl3 View Post
    You show you're interest either directly or indirectly.
    A.) directly- you straight up tell her in a conversation that you think she's sexy as hell and wonder if she has a personality to go with it, because you're very picky with girls. You're the selector, and she's the selectee. Girls know this deep down, & it's very attractive when guys have balls and are honest with there intentions upfront.
    Won't she feel annoyed when your words convey that you are screening her, because she doesn't want to be like a commodity to be screened by people

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    Default Re: male-to-female interest

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack100 View Post
    Won't she feel annoyed when your words convey that you are screening her, because she doesn't want to be like a commodity to be screened by people
    Jack, not to be funny but women love to be commodities screened by both men and women. their is an element of competition with women, constantly. there is also the mentality that entitles them to free drinks and constant male attention.

    also I want to make one little adjustment to the line from Kyle mentioned. whatever the line, it ends with " what's it going to take for you to love me". I personally don't like to give any ioi's before I deliver it. I want it to be an emotional sucker punch. finally that's not my line, credit Rob from keys to the vip.

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    Default Re: male-to-female interest

    Kino, how do women typically respond to that line? I have been thinking about using it, but I don't know where I would go with it.

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    Default Re: male-to-female interest

    [QUOTE=2champ2;116272]Kino, how do women typically respond to that line? I have been thinking about using it, but I don't know where I would go with it.[/QUO

    This is pretty easy, you'll need to be prepared for three possible responses. she's going to give you a strong approval, in which case you're going to start kino and compliance testing to figure out how much she likes you.

    You're going to get a " yeah right" or a "that's ridiculous", if you get either one just run your game like normal. if she is rude or indignant, just smile and plow through.

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    Default Re: male-to-female interest

    Thanks Kino, I am gonna give it a try this week and see what happens, I can see it going pretty well if you deliver it properly and have a good smile to go with it.


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