Just had a girl flake on me at the last minute today and wonder if the experts could help me analyze my response.
I called this HB8 during lunch and asked if she wants to go workout together (we are kind of workout buddies, don't really know if this is a good thing...), she said yes without hesitation.
I was supposed to pick her up at 5:30, but she flaked on me around 5.
I will copy the text that we have exchanged here:
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"We need to do it another time"
"My boss called for a last-minute meeting"
Me: "Then did you ask your boss how he will make it up to me?"
Me: "Still early, want to go golfing range instead?" (We sometimes go to golfing range at night too)
HB: "Can't golf"
"Because some senseless friend arranged a blind date 9:30 at night"
Me: "Wow, an arrangement is made and you are just going to go?"
"Who should I ask to make the arrangements for me if I am pursuing you?"
"Never mind, we should get a divorce"
"I am going to fight for custody of Stitch" (I got her a Stitch doll and calls her the mother)
"I don't want to either"
"they were persistent"
"And the guy is flying tomorrow"
"so really pushed for a meeting tonight"
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I have yet to respond to her.
How was my response?
Is the proper action now to stop initiating contact for a couple of days?