So I posted yesterday about this HB9 I met up with where I was unsure how to proceed –*the date went very well but she shut down escalation at the end, but then initiated contact with me later that night. (we maintained flirty banter and light kino until she left)
It's been two days since we met up, and she hasn't initiated contact. So now –*I'm at the point where it's time to figure out what to say to get her back out again. I really just need an excuse to open her somehow…the problem is, in that exchange at the end of the night my best material was used up!
Things we joked about that night: crashing a wedding nearby, the band 3 Doors Down was playing in town and we laughed about going to see it, and cake jokes (she had to go to a birthday party). All three of those things were brought up in our(brief, with her initiating/showing interest) post-date text exchange….all three would have been excellent openers. But I feel as though if I were to re-use something that many times I'll appear a bit dull.
I could make fun of her for her non-namebrand Doc Martens. I could poke fun for her having a modeling shot of herself on her phone. I could mention something about my dog ( we took him for a short walk). I'll have no problem out to, I just need a good way to do it!
I was thinking something along the lines of "Hey [Christy], what are the chances of getting those fake Docs out for a stroll over here tonight? Drinks [place/time]" or even "Hope my favorite dog-walking companion is doing well. Drinks [place/time] tonight?" …..BUT, I'm trying to avoid ASKING. At this point I'm really just trying to break the ice again!
I'm probably really overthinking all of this, but this is the first girl that's presented a challenge to me in a long, long time. So I need a good in, something that's not too wordy or needy. She's hot as fark and she knows it, and I want a way to get back in.