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    Default How would you handle this?

    This girl has been acting weird lately. last week she called me at like 1am and we talked for a few hours and it was good! she then texted me the next day but i never got back to her. it was just a hectic day.

    So two days after that i texted her to see how she was and never got a reply....i expected that it didnt bother me...

    However, after that, 9 days passed and i didnt hear from her. this is a girl where we'd text or whatever at least every other day.

    So on the 9th day I initiated contact with a simple text. she instantly replied and i asked how she was and she asked how i was and that was the end of it. she seemd as though she wasnt angry...and was fine.

    Now here i am today and ive initiated yet again and no reply but shes active on social networks. today was the day where i went AFC. probaly should have just waited it out.

    If i get no reply tonight my plan is to not initiate contact again for at least 2 weeks. or is there a better option?

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    Default Re: How would you handle this?

    The problem was when she called you at 1am and you never meetup with her that night - what did you guys talk about when you were on the phone? She may have friend zoned you.
    Looking for new wings in LA let me know if you want to sarge together.

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    Default Re: How would you handle this?

    I agree, you have to strike when she is responsive to you rather than waiting. Get another good convo going and meet up asap. Don't worry too much about the mathematics of her schedule, you should have a few girls in the pipe anyway to keep you busy.

    If she is not responding you may also need to ramp up your messages in excitement. Write something to her she cant resist replying to 'hey I just got a suprise for you', 'We all just got some tickets to the Stones show, your coming right?' or sexually escalate a bit to bring out some flirtation 'your tired today? Well let me be the prince who wakes the sleeping beauty...kiss your neck, back of the ears...work my way down to your breasts...I want to make you wet'.

    If you are not pushing things to be sexual by now your stalling...

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    Default Re: How would you handle this?

    May call her and run game..forget about what previously happened.


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