Hi guys, I hope someone can answer me fast..sorry for bad English
I'm going to be quick and explain fast..
So here it goes:
I'm in a realionship with this girl for 3.5months
After first month she told me that I'm not opened to her,i'm not expressing my feelings very well. Ok, I told her that I thought it was early and I was going slowly. I started to open my self more and more.
After second month she told me that this is not it,she just don't feel it...and said that we would not have this conversation if we had sex. I didn't understand because I allude for sex every farking time and she didn't let me..
Little time have pass away and we have sex 3-4 times a week and it was great..
But recently she told me that I don't give her attention,I'm not there for her,she just don't have that feeling...but I'm giving her more than she gives me, it's 65% to 35%...I'm trying really hard,we talk a lot on the phone,I buy some stuff for her here and there,calling her to go out with me,calling to go skating with me but she won't...
My biggest question is what does she means when she tells me that I don't give her enough attention,she have that feeling that I'm not there for her...so how can I create that feeling,how can I bee more there for her?
btw after 3.5months she didn't invite me at her place,she did only once when nobody was at home,she told me that she need more time for that to let someone at her place and I'm cool with that..
how can I put this in her head that I'm really always there for her,I would literally die for her, do anything...she said she need a man,not friend or something else.
SHE SAID U ONLY TALK THAT U LOVE ME AND STUFF LIKE THAT,BUT I WANT ACTIONS??? I thought I'm giving her actions and showing her how much I care for her :/
I can't understand,that's why I need your help guys..