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    Exclamation Farked up beyond repair?

    Hey guys so i think i farked this one up. everything was going good a few days ago, i hadnt started a text convo since sunday. she actually opened me on both monday and tuesday. anyways i was sexting her again the day before yesterday and she totally cuts it, off like the tease she is, telling me good night. so i ask her to at least leave me something to keep me satisfied for now (meaning a pic). she tells me she doesn't trust me and says i'd show people at work. i jokingly said that the only person i'd show is my best friend, that does also work there and that i wouldnt even show him if she asks me not too. sufficient to say she got pissed and basically shut me out. saying how she done the work hookup before and people found out and it sucked. i told her that the guy has been my friend for 8 years and that i could trust him to take a secret to the grave.

    ok sooo what do you think? is this salvageable? or do you guys think i completely ruined my chance at farking her? I havent texted her since and she hasnt texted me either. im gunna wait till friday cause we work together on that day. but i'd really like to have an idea of wat i should say to fix this. if not then fark it ill just move on.

    thanks for all the previous advice guys it was working till i farked it all up.

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    Default Re: Farked up beyond repair?

    Probably worth ploughing ahead, just to get closure.

    Lesson learnt right?

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    Default Re: Farked up beyond repair?

    lmfao lesson has Definatly been learnt and it wont happen again.

    I was gunna try to keep going until i knew for sure but i don't know what i should really say to her now. should i apologize for telling someone, even if it was one of my oldest friends? has anyone ever been in this predicament and gotten past it?

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    Default Re: Farked up beyond repair?

    Don't even mention it.

    Just text: hey, how's the week been? and see from there.

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    Default Re: Farked up beyond repair?

    should i wait till tomorrow to send this? or right now? cause this only happened at 1am on Wednesday...

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    Default Re: Farked up beyond repair?

    Dude, what the heck haha. Women need to feel trust in order to fully deconstruct whatever defense barrier they have. Therefore, why would you even joke about showing someone else a nuddie.... even if it's just your best friend? Put yourself in her shoes.

    All is not lost though! Basically, you should just pretend like it never happened, girls like to do that. I have to disagree with rs5096's opener though, don't start it off with a question. I suggest something funny but light that will make her reminisce of a good time between the two of you. It's all about influencing the subconscious mind.
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    Default Re: Farked up beyond repair?

    Dude. Do it my way which is the right way.no disrespect the beamer but any other way is try hard. U faeked up badly here

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    Default Re: Farked up beyond repair?

    There is no recovery in this situation, mostly because you're an idiot and think it's funny to joke about sharing her nudes to co-workers.

    Hopefully you learned a lesson, because she would of probably fucked you.

    Best advice? Act like you never said it like the above posters stated, don't text her, and try and build some trust/attraction at work. Even then, its a long shot and you're probably never going to get that trust back, which means no sex for you.

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    Default Re: Farked up beyond repair?

    I can't even begin to wrap my head around why you'd want to show your best friend so badly. Even if you did show him and he's so trust worthy, why tell her? What'd you expect her to say? "Awww hell yeah, show your best friend, as a matter of fact, send it to him!"

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    Default Re: Farked up beyond repair?

    man idek wat i was thinking i though it was funny at the time, didnt really think she'd react the way she did honestly.... i learned my lesson though and i ended up texting her yesterday and got an "ok watever" response, basically telling me to fark off right?

    there was nothing to show him... when i said it i was trying to be funny, i wasnt really going to show him anything.

    Im not gunna stress it though, i fucked up, if its salvageable then ok, if not, fark it i cant change the past unfortunately, only learn from it so that's what im gunna do.


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