Ok, that's a tricky one.
I've been married for a few years and I have young kids. My marriage is not in a great state to say the least. It's not that we got to the point that my wife and I can't stand each other, it's just we have too many points of conflict. I still have love and respect towards her, but we lost our "loving feeling"... We hardly have sex anymore.We tried everything - marriage counseling, therapy, books talks.
Bottom line - I want to have sex with other women, and I want to have it through pickup because of the excitement involved. Going to a "professional lady" is not an option because for me it's like masturbating (I hope I didn't offend anyone by this remark).
I've been involved to some extent with my local pick community before I met my wife and Irony is that I started getting good at it just shortly before I met her.
Now it's a completely different ball game. I know that there are some very smart people in the community and I would appreciate any wise advise on where to start from. I prefer a one, two night stand rather than an affair, since I don't want to end my marriage (my wife probably would forgive a one night stand)for various reasons which I rather not elaborate.
Please, please I only after pickup advise, so don't try to reprimand me. I thought about it through and through and this is the best option for me at the moment. Let He Who Is Without Sin Cast The First Stone... We all know that a lot of people outside the community are scornful towards pickup.
I would be extremely grateful on how to play the game as a married man, and again, please don't comment if you just want to preach.