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    timmyt94 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Tinder Sh1t Test help!

    So this girl on Tinder gave me an interesting sh1t test that I'm not sure how to respond to. When we matched, I tried to get a number and said:

    Me: Hey, this app really drains my battery. Want to text like normal people?
    Her: Lol if you really think I'll give my number out that easily. Work for it.

    How should I respond to this "work for my number" sh1t test?

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    Default Re: Tinder Sh1t Test help!

    It's not a test... you just need to give her a reason to give you her number.

    You have to at least build SOME sort of attraction & curiosity first.


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    Default Re: Tinder Sh1t Test help!

    Well she's right in a way, you need to work for it. Gain attraction and she will reward you with her number. In fact you could totally suss out her pattern for meeting up, sex, etc by learning and controlling that dynamic. If giving her what she wants to hear is effective in getting into her pants go for it.

    However she might also be a little bit of an ice princess with unrealistic expectations so keep that in mind. She may possibly be revealing her deep selfish insecurities by being a prude. You asked for her number because of battery power and you only wanted to continue texting in a better format. It's not as big a deal as she's making out to be. This is why its essential to have several girls going because the next girl might cough up her number no problem, might be a cooler chick as well.

    You could also neg her back playfully 'work for it? Haha sounds like your idea of love is possession rather than appreciation, tell you what, give me your number and i'll write something that will make your day'. You could flip it around on her and if she doesnt bite, freeze her out because you are not a time waster. But yeah you want to try avoid being in this position in the first place by building attraction.

    You should ultimately be aiming for girls asking for YOUR number and wanting to meet up.

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    Default Re: Tinder Sh1t Test help!

    Ignore it totally. Don't even reference it. At all.

    What you see is:

    1. Mild compliance from the girl (msg but no text)
    2. Her setting the frame that she is the prize.

    What you want to do is:

    1. Make the convo less logical
    2. Make the convo more emotional

    So, that means you must be:

    1. Ignoring logic (ie: "I don't give out me number")
    2. Encouraging illogical/funny texts

    For example, you could respond with something funny. Make a joke out of it and keep talking to her, but never ackowledging her frame.

    Then, later, say something like:

    "I'm going over to my buddy's but I wanna send you some creeper texts. Give me your number."

    See the difference? In this case you're leading. In your original text, you asked her if she wanted to co-lead with you. Maybe she'd want to, but by making her decide something, she is feeling more masculine. Hence her attraction and compliance go down


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