Surprisingly, I'm very successful with women. I typically sleep with them 80% of the time on the first date. Usually a different girl every couple weeks. Sounds great huh? Well...I have fucking approach anxiety.
The thing is all the girls I meet are either from mutual friends during hang outs, from work, or from online dating. Now that I look back, I've never hooked up with a random girl that I see in the supermarket, open, talk to, close then fuck. Girls have approached and opened me but never the other way around.
I'm just realizing this today when I was at the market. Gorgeous girls every other isle. I think about it but when I'm actually in the moment I don't know how to approach. I'm not afraid of getting rejected, I'm never gonna see them again. But I just can't think of any situational openers on the spot. Of course I always think of them later on my way home but when I'm in the moment and it's real, my mind goes blank.