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    Exclamation Hooked up with an HB8 and now she won't reply to fb messages.

    Hey guys, new to PUA forums. I have a problem that I really need some advice on.

    I'm a senior in highschool, and last weekend a bunch of us from highschools around the area went on a sort of mid-year grad trip to Quebec City (Where the legal age is 18). We had an entire hotel rented out, filled with seniors from 13 different highschools. The first night out I went to a club and talked to this HB8 (whom I knew of through mutual friends, but had never actually spoken to) in line for about 30 seconds. She was wearing these pink Elton John-like glasses with the lenses knocked out. The conversation went like this:

    Me: Those are some sweet glasses!
    Her: Thanks!
    Me: Where can I get myself a pair?
    Her: You can have these, they look better on you anyways. (I took this as an IOI)
    Me: Awesome! (I put the glasses on) Do I look like Elton John?
    Her: Haha, a younger, totally not-gay version of him.

    I got into the club before her and scanned the floor for awhile. I had a drink, danced for a bit, and then went back to the bar (Note that I had been wearing these pink glasses since she gave them to me). 30 minutes had passed and I noticed her talking to her friends on the other side of the room.

    I walked up to her, put the glasses back on her face and said "They look MUCH better on you than they do on me." She took my hand and led me to the dance floor where we were grinding for I'd say 10 minutes. I grabbed her hands, twirled her around so she was facing me, and went in for a kiss. Full on makeout for 20 minutes in the middle of the dance floor. I was sort of drunk at this point and didn't number close, but she was staying in my hotel so I figured I'd see her again that night. I said to her

    Me: I've got to go find my friends but you're fun. What floor are you staying on?"
    Her: 6th
    Me: I'm on the 9th floor. Maybe I'll see you again tonight.
    Her: Okay

    And I left. Biggest mistake EVER. I didn't see her again that night or at all for the rest of the trip infact. I went back to hotel thinking about what could have been had I actually gotten her number while the attraction was up.

    It's been a week since the trip and a mutual friend messaged me on facebook.

    Her: "SO you and **** eh?" (She said a nickname and I didn't catch it)
    Me: "hmm? Who's ****"
    Her: "**********! SORRY"
    Me: "Oh! Well we hooked up in Quebec, I didn't think anything was going on."
    Her: "OMG are you kidding? She wouldn't stop talking about it in class today! She said you left her!"
    Me: "Yeah, I got bored. It was fun but I wanted to rave rather than hookup with a girl I barely knew. She seemed too easy" <-(Lame excuses I know)
    Her: Message her!

    So I waited until she was online and messaged her. Somehow we were already facebook friends (probably one of those "I know you but I don't know you" facebook adds back in freshman year of highschool). She replied almost immediately. I waited a few minutes to reply. And then she didn't reply for 20 minutes. The conversation between me and the HB8.


    Me: Where EVER did you find those glasses? (It's been a week and I wanted to say something that would bring back the emotions.)
    Her: i have no idea I found them ahah
    Me: Aw, i was hoping i'd be able to snag me a pair and attract some more ladies
    Her: haha yea sorry
    Me: It's probably for the better, you wore them better anyways.
    Me: You know what would have REALLY made you look cute is if you decided to wear a bright pink shirt to match those elton john specs.
    Her: I should have! But thank you, I lost them in Quebec though
    Me: I'd bet alot of people lost something in quebec (I was implying virginity but didn't say it so she could interpret), what an insane weekend it was, my roomies and I were up at 6am scrubbing pizza sauce off the wall.
    Her: ...oh god. Is that what ****** was cleaning off the wall in the video? lol

    At this point I should mention that my roommate made a video of the trip.

    Me: That would be correct!
    Me: we were all so farked up all weekend, before the pizza was on the wall ****** actually asked politely if he could throw it at the wall. we didn't answer. he did it anyways.
    Her: lol wooow
    Her: we managed to keep our room spotless
    Me: That's a surprise considering alcohol :P
    Her: did you guys break your picture frame?
    Me: no actually we didn't, but ****** did manage to lock a gram of his weed in the safe that we didn't know the code to. whoever gets that room next is going to be one happy tourist.
    Her: hahahaha very true
    Me: How was tubing at valcartier?
    Her: i didn't go, i stayed at the hotel all day and drank
    Me: Great minds think alike
    Me: That's your excuse? You could have drank while you were tubing! have you never been taboozing? apparently we missed out on a good time.
    Her: yeah but not many people from my school went. and I have it's unreal!
    Me: Oh come on you look like you make friends easily. I mean look at how quickly you met me

    She read the message 6 minutes after I sent it and hasn't replied. I know I went wrong, what I want to know is how I can correct this mistake! I wouldn't mind going out on a date with this girl and any advice is appreciated!!!

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    Default Re: Hooked up with an HB8 and now she won't reply to fb messages.

    she's interested bro so just keep building comfort and attraction, be fun and flirty, then invite her to a party then run more game on her, if her friends are telling you she's in to you then she probably is.

    as for the message don't think to much about it there was nothing in the last message from you that would ruin your chance. Just wait she'll text you back most likely. Don't send boring texts either there is no real hooking points for her to carry on the convo, which is most likely why she hasn't responded.

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    Default Re: Hooked up with an HB8 and now she won't reply to fb messages.

    Thanks for the reassurance bro. If I don't get a reply later tonight I was thinking of messaging her something along the lines:

    "I'm going to assume the worst that you were (???) and thats why you haven't replied to me,"

    Any suggestions? Would that come off as too needy regardless of whether I fill in the (???) with something humerous? Still havent thought of something so any suggestions are helpful.

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    Default Re: Hooked up with an HB8 and now she won't reply to fb messages.

    that message conveys way to much neediness, how long ago did u send that last message? If it has been less then a day just wait it out, trust me I know how tempting it can be to send a girl your in to a text but you have to wait. If you want to send her a message make 100% sure its something funny and flirty.

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    Default Re: Hooked up with an HB8 and now she won't reply to fb messages.

    Quote Originally Posted by ThtNikkaGP View Post
    that message conveys way to much neediness, how long ago did u send that last message? If it has been less then a day just wait it out, trust me I know how tempting it can be to send a girl your in to a text but you have to wait. If you want to send her a message make 100% sure its something funny and flirty.
    It's been over 24 hours now since she saw my last message and is yet to reply. Did she freeze me out?
    Last edited by CapitalT; 02-25-2014 at 10:38 PM. Reason: correction *message

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    Default Re: Hooked up with an HB8 and now she won't reply to fb messages.

    Quote Originally Posted by CapitalT View Post
    It's been over 24 hours now since she saw my last message and is yet to reply. Did she freeze me out?
    She probably just forgot about it man, it was a fairly long convo and it'll fade out eventually this early on, which is good, you don't want to be talking to her nonstop. It's been 24 hours now, well message her in a day or so and re-initiate some sort of conversation. If you do it Thursday you can ask what her weekend plans are and maybe get some face time in this weekend.

    And definitely don't call her out for not responding, it's normal, sometimes girls don't respond. Act like you didn't even notice cause you were busy with more important stuff.

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    Default Re: Hooked up with an HB8 and now she won't reply to fb messages.

    Quote Originally Posted by CapitalT View Post
    "I'm going to assume the worst that you were (???) and thats why you haven't replied to me,"

    Any suggestions? Would that come off as too needy regardless of whether I fill in the (???) with something humerous? Still havent thought of something so any suggestions are helpful.
    Way too needy... if you ever can't help to send something like that write 'Did aliens abduct you?' instead and make it playful.

    It seems like she wasn't 100% into the conversation before... she wasn't asking you much and was responding to your questions in a fairly short nature. Need to develop some attraction, hooks and definitive reasons to write back to you. Move on from talking about the trip towards something grander and exciting in life. Your both 18, finishing school, full of dreams and in most cases girls that age will be more mature than you deep down. It seems the missed opportunity could still be in her mind from leaving her that night and she may rapidly loose interest as a result. She may in fact see the situation exactly as you described it 'Yeah, I got bored. It was fun but I wanted to rave rather than hookup with a girl I barely knew. She seemed too easy'.

    What she might be wanting is for you to take control - be the leading man. Rather than circling around yourself and worrying about lack of replies, like it's an examination paper, just be mature and ask her out. Be 100% confident like she was in dragging you onto the dancefloor.

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    CapitalT is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Hooked up with an HB8 and now she won't reply to fb messages.

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Way too needy... if you ever can't help to send something like that write 'Did aliens abduct you?' instead and make it playful.

    It seems like she wasn't 100% into the conversation before... she wasn't asking you much and was responding to your questions in a fairly short nature. Need to develop some attraction, hooks and definitive reasons to write back to you. Move on from talking about the trip towards something grander and exciting in life. Your both 18, finishing school, full of dreams and in most cases girls that age will be more mature than you deep down. It seems the missed opportunity could still be in her mind from leaving her that night and she may rapidly loose interest as a result. She may in fact see the situation exactly as you described it 'Yeah, I got bored. It was fun but I wanted to rave rather than hookup with a girl I barely knew. She seemed too easy'.

    What she might be wanting is for you to take control - be the leading man. Rather than circling around yourself and worrying about lack of replies, like it's an examination paper, just be mature and ask her out. Be 100% confident like she was in dragging you onto the dancefloor.
    So it's been 3 days without a reply. I'm not that concerned with her replying anymore seeing as I started gaming these two other girls that go to my school and things are going pretty good with both. What do you think I should do about this one? Should I send her a message tonight or completely forget about her and hope we see eachother at a party sometime in the future where I can run some more game.

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    ThtNikkaGP is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Hooked up with an HB8 and now she won't reply to fb messages.

    if your talking to other girls id just say wait till you see her again.


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