Hey guys, new to PUA forums. I have a problem that I really need some advice on.
I'm a senior in highschool, and last weekend a bunch of us from highschools around the area went on a sort of mid-year grad trip to Quebec City (Where the legal age is 18). We had an entire hotel rented out, filled with seniors from 13 different highschools. The first night out I went to a club and talked to this HB8 (whom I knew of through mutual friends, but had never actually spoken to) in line for about 30 seconds. She was wearing these pink Elton John-like glasses with the lenses knocked out. The conversation went like this:
Me: Those are some sweet glasses!
Me: Where can I get myself a pair?
Her: You can have these, they look better on you anyways. (I took this as an IOI)
Me: Awesome! (I put the glasses on) Do I look like Elton John?
Her: Haha, a younger, totally not-gay version of him.
I got into the club before her and scanned the floor for awhile. I had a drink, danced for a bit, and then went back to the bar (Note that I had been wearing these pink glasses since she gave them to me). 30 minutes had passed and I noticed her talking to her friends on the other side of the room.
I walked up to her, put the glasses back on her face and said "They look MUCH better on you than they do on me." She took my hand and led me to the dance floor where we were grinding for I'd say 10 minutes. I grabbed her hands, twirled her around so she was facing me, and went in for a kiss. Full on makeout for 20 minutes in the middle of the dance floor. I was sort of drunk at this point and didn't number close, but she was staying in my hotel so I figured I'd see her again that night. I said to her
Me: I've got to go find my friends but you're fun. What floor are you staying on?"
Me: I'm on the 9th floor. Maybe I'll see you again tonight.
And I left. Biggest mistake EVER. I didn't see her again that night or at all for the rest of the trip infact. I went back to hotel thinking about what could have been had I actually gotten her number while the attraction was up.
It's been a week since the trip and a mutual friend messaged me on facebook.
Her: "SO you and **** eh?" (She said a nickname and I didn't catch it)
Me: "hmm? Who's ****"
Her: "**********! SORRY"
Me: "Oh! Well we hooked up in Quebec, I didn't think anything was going on."
Her: "OMG are you kidding? She wouldn't stop talking about it in class today! She said you left her!"
Me: "Yeah, I got bored. It was fun but I wanted to rave rather than hookup with a girl I barely knew. She seemed too easy" <-(Lame excuses I know)
Her: Message her!
So I waited until she was online and messaged her. Somehow we were already facebook friends (probably one of those "I know you but I don't know you" facebook adds back in freshman year of highschool). She replied almost immediately. I waited a few minutes to reply. And then she didn't reply for 20 minutes. The conversation between me and the HB8.
Me: Where EVER did you find those glasses? (It's been a week and I wanted to say something that would bring back the emotions.)
Her: i have no idea I found them ahah
Me: Aw, i was hoping i'd be able to snag me a pair and attract some more ladies
Her: haha yea sorry
Me: It's probably for the better, you wore them better anyways.
Me: You know what would have REALLY made you look cute is if you decided to wear a bright pink shirt to match those elton john specs.
Her: I should have! But thank you, I lost them in Quebec though
Me: I'd bet alot of people lost something in quebec (I was implying virginity but didn't say it so she could interpret), what an insane weekend it was, my roomies and I were up at 6am scrubbing pizza sauce off the wall.
Her: ...oh god. Is that what ****** was cleaning off the wall in the video? lol
At this point I should mention that my roommate made a video of the trip.
Me: That would be correct!
Me: we were all so farked up all weekend, before the pizza was on the wall ****** actually asked politely if he could throw it at the wall. we didn't answer. he did it anyways.
Her: lol wooow
Her: we managed to keep our room spotless
Me: That's a surprise considering alcohol :P
Her: did you guys break your picture frame?
Me: no actually we didn't, but ****** did manage to lock a gram of his weed in the safe that we didn't know the code to. whoever gets that room next is going to be one happy tourist.
Her: hahahaha very true
Me: How was tubing at valcartier?
Her: i didn't go, i stayed at the hotel all day and drank
Me: Great minds think alike
Me: That's your excuse? You could have drank while you were tubing! have you never been taboozing? apparently we missed out on a good time.
Her: yeah but not many people from my school went. and I have it's unreal!
Me: Oh come on you look like you make friends easily. I mean look at how quickly you met me
She read the message 6 minutes after I sent it and hasn't replied. I know I went wrong, what I want to know is how I can correct this mistake! I wouldn't mind going out on a date with this girl and any advice is appreciated!!!