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    Default Girl with BF

    Hey guys, Hows it going? Today I tried out my very first day game and I was a bit nervous at first, but I tried to keep myself together. While I was on my way home from a close by burger store I noticed a girl in front of me smiling with her head phones on. So I decided to Smile back, and ask whats so funny? She responded with a smile (IOI), in which I then ended up asking her where she heading.. After 5 minutes of a conversation, we then exchanged number. Before I left she then told me she had a boyfriend she was seeing.

    I called her yesterday and arranged a day for us to meet up which she recommended today. But through out the conversation she was constantly saying "I dont want to give you the false impression but my boyfriend this.. my boyfriend that.. blah blah.. "

    So my question for you all is... Should I meet her and ignore the boyfriend statement.. or should I give up?

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    Default Re: Girl with BF

    Cav, the reason why she keeps bringing up her bf is because she has interest/attraction in you, but is feeling guilty. It's one of the known ways girls react.

    How you choose to proceed is up in the air. You can either plow through or forget it. I know many guys on the forums will eject if a girl has a bf, unless they sense it is a sh1t test.

    If you choose to proceed, the best thing I can recommend is just shoot for a casual hangout and see if you got anything in common. For me personally, lots of things in common and a strong connection is the only way I would press on compromising my morals, and it's a very low percent. So it doesn't hurt to see what she is about before you start running some serious game.

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    Default Re: Girl with BF

    Yeah, perhaps your right. The vibe I get from her, isnt a get away from me I am taken kind of a vibe. But I do remember asking her about her boyfriend and her.. if he was the overprotective kind of a guy and she simply said "I can do whatever I want". So I figured she wasnt really that serious about their relationship.

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    Default Re: Girl with BF

    I.M.Mortal gave some great advice.

    I'm of the ilk who will back off, if I know that a girl really does have a boyfriend / fiance / husband.

    But sometimes girls DO say that as a shit test.
    If your observant & can pick up on any clues she may be giving, you'll know if she's serious or not.

    And the reason I back off if a girl has a guy already?
    Easy: If she'll cheat on him or leave him, to be with ME... she'll probably do it to me to be with someone else.



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    Default Re: Girl with BF

    Great post I.M. You are the only person I've seen on this forum have that perspective and it's spot on. Allot of guys think that the "bf" line is a form of disinterest but sometimes a girl will feel guilty and mention her bf to unload the responsibility on you. It doesn't mean she's not interested.

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    Default Re: Girl with BF

    Yeah your absolute right. I honestly started day game to improve my social skills. Its weird I can randomly talk to someone I am not interested in about the weirdest conversation but visa versa.. I tend to stumble..

    I honestly dont think I would date her, I guess its more of the experience.


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