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Thread: Daygame and BF, worth it or not

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    Default Daygame and BF, worth it or not

    I'm curious to hear what the experts do.

    As for me when I'm day gaming and a girl and she says she has a bf I always ask a question like, how did you met, what's his name or how long you been together. Based on the speed of her response I can tell if she's lying.

    If she really does then I'll say something clever and close the conversation.

    If she's lying I'll tease her or ignore the topic and try to keep going.

    What do you guys do? Personally I think it's a waste of time and just move onto the next girl. Has anyone attempted a bf destroyer technique in daygame?
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    Default Re: Daygame and BF, worth it or not

    Use a bf destroyer if you like her, from my research so far I've found that girls with bf are the easiest to get. (They start of as a challenge but what they really want is another man attention on her that's not her bf. someone that doesn't do everything she says.) also 55 % of women in relationships tend to cheat on their bf(if the other guy's game is right). Don't let the "I have a bf" card scare you, sometimes it's just a Sh1t test. Tell her " does that mean we can't be friends?" Or " I just want to be friends, not your significant other." Sometimes you just have to give your phone to them and they will have no choice but to insert their number in( something that I came up with)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Daygame and BF, worth it or not

    You pretty much got the right idea.

    If a girl ever busts out the bf card, it can mean 1) she is not attracted to you at all and wants to end the convo or 2) she is attracted to you and is feeling guilty and wants to dump the burden of responsibility on you or 3) is unsure of you and saying it as a Sh1t test.

    If she does bust out the bf line, I just brush it off with a counter to subcommunicate to her that I don't care and/or he is irrelevant.

    One of my recent cases was over text with a girl I knew for a while that I'm working on.
    ME: Hey [X], was someone able to walk u to your car on sat nite? I couldnít stay long cuz I had an early day on Sunday.
    HER: Haha yea [X], plus imma big girl! My friend [X] showed up later that night and made sure I was safe
    ME: Cool! Ok big girl, next time ask em if he can walk you out of my mind and into my arms
    (Didn't establish much attraction the night prior when I saw her, so for the first time ever, she busts it out. Here it comes!)
    HER: [X]...u r well aware I have a bf, so I hope u only mean to dance
    ME: You have a boyfriend?? *gasp* Oh crap! Does he know about us? (lol)
    HER: HahaÖu met him
    ME: Hmmm. I have amnesia when it comes to remembering bfs. So u will have to constantly remind me. But itís okay, he can keep you busy when Iím not around

    I only run bf destroyers on a girl that I really like because I see potential due to things in common and connection. Most girls with bfs are not even worth the effort. I've only done this twice in my lifetime.

    In the past, if I ever get the bf line from a girl, I throw a counter to make them laugh and just eject gracefully.

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    Default Re: Daygame and BF, worth it or not

    I just move on. I've found most of the time that if you use any kind of bf destroyer you come off as a scumbag. I usually just say, "Well he is a very lucky man." Then part ways. It's better to gracefully bow out, and show respect. Never know. The world is a small place, and you might run into her again except maybe this time she doesn't have a girlfriend, and instead of remembering you as the guy who tries to pick up girls with boyfriends, she will remember you as the classy gentleman who respected her relationship.

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    Default Re: Daygame and BF, worth it or not

    My standard response to the, "I have a b/f" is this:

    "Perfect, bring him along too we can all go for drinks" or " Perfect, he can make us breakfast in bed the next morning"

    Go alpha when she brings up a b/f. Half the time it's a sh!t test to see if you can over come it.


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